Ore. Court: Boy Has Say In Circumcision Oregon Supreme Court Rules 12-Year-Old Boy Should Be Consulted About Circumcision PORTLAND, Ore., Jan. 25, 2008 (AP) The wishes of a 12-year-old boy should be considered in a dispute between his divorced parents about whether he should be circumcised, the Oregon Supreme Court ruled Friday. The father, James Boldt, converted to Judaism in 2004 and wants the boy to be circumcised as part of the faith. The mother, Lia Boldt, appealed to the high court, saying the operation could harm her son physically and psychologically. The state Supreme Court ruled that earlier court decisions failed to determine whether the boy wanted the circumcision, as his father contended, or opposed it, as his mother alleged. The Supreme Court sent the case back to the trial court to answer that question. If the trial court finds the child agrees to be circumcised, the Supreme Court said, it should deny the mother's requests. But if the trial court finds the child opposes the circumcision, the court has to determine if it will affect the father's ability to care for the child. The custody dispute began when the child was 4 and the circumcision issue began three years ago when he was 9. The case has drawn attention from Jewish groups concerned that the Oregon court might restrict the practice. It also has drawn attention from Doctors Opposing Circumcision. The courts have steered clear of religious or medical issues, focusing on the questions of custody and care of the child. More than a million U.S. infants are circumcised each year, but circumcising adults or teens remains relatively rare. Copyright 2008 The Associated Press. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed. I thought I would be the last person to ever post a circumcision thread but I saw this in todays Atlanta-Journal Constitution; and thought it needed to be shared. A Few Thoughts: The article doesn't mention what the mothers religion is. Technically, if the mother is not Jewish, then the child is not Jewish, and thus does not need to be circumcised. The son being uncut should not affect the fathers ability to love and care for him. The boy is now 12 years old, he does not need daddy's help to wash his penis. I am not a parent, however I am reasonably certain that there are a variety of things they can do together, to bond.