Women, I've read, will have made up their mind within 15 minutes (or some ridiculously small amount of time) whether or not they will ever have sex with you.
True, with qualifiers. :biggrin1: Assuming we meet in person in a casual rather than professional setting, then yes.
True or not true?
Interesting. So you separate casual and professional encounters? That is, you're reactions are entirely "objective" when you are meeting in a professional capacity? No thoughts of attraction or a 'personal' nature enter your mind?True, with qualifiers. :biggrin1: Assuming we meet in person in a casual rather than professional setting, then yes.
I think very often in my life I will have decided in the first 15 mins of meeting a guy that I definitively would not have sex with him if the opportunity arose rolleyes: forgive...) - and I can't recall that decision ever being reversed. But deciding within 15 that I definitely would? No. That's not my personal experience of a default - It happens, but isn't the norm for me.
Fascinating. This has been my experience as well. That is, other women I've spoken with have said that they knew it would never happen right away and there was NOTHING the guy could do to change that. [ie. me] But this...True. In my experience the first sort out is made within the first 15 minutes. It's almost always a 'no'...
...is a rather unique response. Would you care to elaborate a bit? How did you "know"? Was it purely physical? Did they 'wow' you in some other way? Please share as you feel comfortable with....some guys get a clear 'yes' right from the start.
I'm sorry, that's not how I meant it. It's not purely a "do him or not" dichotomy; well kinda, but certainly the possibility of sex is a requisite for a long-term relationship. And yes, I understand the value of a woman's [platonic] friendship - BELIEVE me - I'm just struggling to understand the other sex's sexual behaviour.Not like it's a conscious decision, but I definitely don't spend my first 15 minutes after meeting a man by judging whether or not I'd "do" him.
As long as 15 minutes? Good grief! I think it takes the average man about 15 seconds, lol.
I do believe it was shorter than 15min - something very, very brief (3min perhaps?).I don't see what's strange. Men usually take 2 seconds to decide if they would fuck a girl or not (well, that's an easy one). Liking someone, however, is a different thing for both gender, i suppose (and hope).
I'm sorry, that's not how I meant it. It's not purely a "do him or not" dichotomy; well kinda, but certainly the possibility of sex is a requisite for a long-term relationship. And yes, I understand the value of a woman's [platonic] friendship - BELIEVE me - I'm just struggling to understand the other sex's sexual behaviour.
Any insight as to why the evaluation is so 'hasty' (in my estimation) and (apparently) permanent?