18 year old virgin with 2 questions

[Jay Amour]

Hey so I’m sadly still a virgin but I have a few questions for anyone who is experienced in sex. My first question is what is anal sex like? from both sides giving and receiving describe everything if possible. My second and last question is what is oral sex like so blow jobs and ass eating I would like both sides giving and receiving to also describe everything if possible. Thank you to who ever responds hope you all are having a good day / night where ever you are in the word.

 

[Big_a_20]

First of all don’t be sad you’re a virgin lol
We’ve all been there. You have plenty of years for sex (a lot of it if you choose so) so don’t rush yourself into anything.

but since you asked about sensations; here you go

oral receiving sex: imagine good kissing, swirling and wet, going up and down your dick. With a little suction.

oral giving: it’s like a fleshy muscle wrestling in your mouth trying to get deeper inside you.

fucking; top: imagine fleshy hole that expands and opens with lips that grip the sides of your shaft.

fucking; bottom: first time can be uncomfortable so it feels intense pressure, you have to breath and accept it. But once you relax, it feels like how you’d imagine your throat feeling but without a jaw. If the top is good, it will feel like a hole that’s always been there. Literally open and relaxed.

rimming: feels like licking a deep belly button. As you/it opens it feels like thin ring of muscle.

hope that helps!

 

[briacon429]

Like waaaaarm apple pie. (I may be dating myself with that reference!)

Seriously though, I’m not sure if any words can fully do it justice. Though you can feel free to check out a lot of the erotica on this site, including my own! It can at least give you an idea of how it feels:

Cocklust

Oral is probably the most unique sensation of all, because there’s no way to simulate it: you’ll just have to experience it for yourself! But you can sorta kinda simulate anal sex when you masturbate. Topping feels a lot like jacking off, except way more intense, since you‘re doing it with another man— plus his hole will usually grip your dick nice and tight. Bottoming feels a lot like taking a dildo, except again way more intense.

I also agree you shouldn’t feel sad about being a virgin. I know plenty of people who were virgins at 18! (In my case I‘d slept with girls at that point, but I hadn’t been with a guy yet.) You’ll have plenty of chances to try this stuff out for yourself!

 

[jslates215]

I’ll start by saying I’m a total bottom with a severe oral fetish lol.

Bottoming is amazing when done with someone you car about. A lot of sensation and pleasure for both.

I’ve never topped.

Oral! I love to give it. I become in tune with what he likes, his body sends messages, and I work to please him. It’s pleasure for both of us and providing him with so much pleasure gives me a euphoria I’m addicted to.

Honestly I could go way more in-depth. Ask away if you’d like to know more lol.

 

[AllDixNeedLuv69]

First time sex when doing things can seem strange at first or exciting … after I turned 18 (wasnt a virgin though) —- but can give you some pointers and a couple things to do .. thinfs to do is tell the person who you are with knows this is your first time 2nd thi g when comes to anal . If he goes to screw you and he’s going to fast .. slowly turn to left of right doing so will make his dick pop out


When sucking a dick if you go to suck one and don’t like the taste as it happens .. just give it time to work on your taste buds .. one guy I was with didn’t like taste at first but he loved sucking on my dick.. so I put some pancake syrup on my cock and he started sucking it and he tells me that was better ..
few times later he wasn’t doing it with the syrup

Then gave him pointers on sucking a dick. It took time to relax his throat .. he had my dick wet from head to balls and he went down on it it went down his throat barely gagging but he did it few times and got used jf

Rimming.. again with sucking dick .. if flavor doesn’t suit you pancake syrup again does wonders but once the syrup is gone. Lick the hole wet a finger and slide it into his hole rub it in few times the wet it some more and rub it in his hole more ..after few times his hole be slick try rimming and shoving tongue in a little bit … I love rimming more than being rimmed .. if we’re here I’d show you what it’s like d


getting rimmed feels weird at first but if you’re gonna too him then it’s like prepping his “ manpussy” as they call it ..

I’ve fucked a few guys their first time and have learned the position they are in can make it more fun or more difficult .. more fun easy way is place a pillow on floor or side of bed have the bottom sit on his legs bend over all way and relax .. being bent over. Relaxes the hole. quite a bit .. another way is doggie style but arch back downward and not upwards .. upwards adds tension to your hole

.. when getting fucked it’s also better it you trust the guy you are with .. if don’t trust him then you will stay tensed up…

I knew a guy he was a virgin until he was 24 and he talks to me about the reason why .. said he wasn’t gay but likes girls and he asked me if I’d keep a secret. Between us I said sure .. he says he is still a virgin because he didn’t think he was big enough .. says the guys you see in porn were so big. … I said anyone that truely likes him will like him for him not his cock ..

he says really low voices if I wanted to see it I said sure he stands up unzips pants and pulled it out and I told him he wasn’t too small … in fact he looked around size 7 about same as me .. he says let him see it so I did …. He was like my dick looked bigger

He then says he wasn’t gay again I said I know. Then says.. can you suck my dick anyway.. I asked him if he was sure and he says yeah so I sucked his dick and I told him several times it was a very nice dick ..

he asked if I thought I can handle it in my ass I said let’s lube it up and give it a try .. he said ok .. I got on my hands and knees he lubed up and went to slide in and as he went in he tells me how good it feels going in .. he got inside me and began fucking z slowly and little faster I told him go at a speed he wants and if it hurts too much I’d let him know

he got pretty fast and thrusting it in and out and stopped while inside me and he says he thinks he is cumming .. I felt it shooting and I said yup you’re cumming .. he got done I told him pump it few times he does and then pulled out …

he asked how he did I told him he did great and trust me that cock is very nice ..

that was only time we did anything .. few weeks later he got a girlfriend .. over a year later he got married to her and few years later after that he has three boys and 1 girl

His attitude changed to he went from a shy guy to out of his shell and he tells me thanks about Every time we see each other

 

[Jay Amour]

First time sex when doing things can seem strange at first or exciting … after I turned 18 (wasnt a virgin though) —- but can give you some pointers and a couple things to do .. thinfs to do is tell the person who you are with knows this is your first time 2nd thi g when comes to anal . If he goes to screw you and he’s going to fast .. slowly turn to left of right doing so will make his dick pop out


When sucking a dick if you go to suck one and don’t like the taste as it happens .. just give it time to work on your taste buds .. one guy I was with didn’t like taste at first but he loved sucking on my dick.. so I put some pancake syrup on my cock and he started sucking it and he tells me that was better ..
few times later he wasn’t doing it with the syrup

Then gave him pointers on sucking a dick. It took time to relax his throat .. he had my dick wet from head to balls and he went down on it it went down his throat barely gagging but he did it few times and got used jf

Rimming.. again with sucking dick .. if flavor doesn’t suit you pancake syrup again does wonders but once the syrup is gone. Lick the hole wet a finger and slide it into his hole rub it in few times the wet it some more and rub it in his hole more ..after few times his hole be slick try rimming and shoving tongue in a little bit … I love rimming more than being rimmed .. if we’re here I’d show you what it’s like d


getting rimmed feels weird at first but if you’re gonna too him then it’s like prepping his “ manpussy” as they call it ..

I’ve fucked a few guys their first time and have learned the position they are in can make it more fun or more difficult .. more fun easy way is place a pillow on floor or side of bed have the bottom sit on his legs bend over all way and relax .. being bent over. Relaxes the hole. quite a bit .. another way is doggie style but arch back downward and not upwards .. upwards adds tension to your hole

.. when getting fucked it’s also better it you trust the guy you are with .. if don’t trust him then you will stay tensed up…

I knew a guy he was a virgin until he was 24 and he talks to me about the reason why .. said he wasn’t gay but likes girls and he asked me if I’d keep a secret. Between us I said sure .. he says he is still a virgin because he didn’t think he was big enough .. says the guys you see in porn were so big. … I said anyone that truely likes him will like him for him not his cock ..

he says really low voices if I wanted to see it I said sure he stands up unzips pants and pulled it out and I told him he wasn’t too small … in fact he looked around size 7 about same as me .. he says let him see it so I did …. He was like my dick looked bigger

He then says he wasn’t gay again I said I know. Then says.. can you suck my dick anyway.. I asked him if he was sure and he says yeah so I sucked his dick and I told him several times it was a very nice dick ..

he asked if I thought I can handle it in my ass I said let’s lube it up and give it a try .. he said ok .. I got on my hands and knees he lubed up and went to slide in and as he went in he tells me how good it feels going in .. he got inside me and began fucking z slowly and little faster I told him go at a speed he wants and if it hurts too much I’d let him know

he got pretty fast and thrusting it in and out and stopped while inside me and he says he thinks he is cumming .. I felt it shooting and I said yup you’re cumming .. he got done I told him pump it few times he does and then pulled out …

he asked how he did I told him he did great and trust me that cock is very nice ..

that was only time we did anything .. few weeks later he got a girlfriend .. over a year later he got married to her and few years later after that he has three boys and 1 girl

His attitude changed to he went from a shy guy to out of his shell and he tells me thanks about Every time we see each other

Thank you seriously for the advice means a lot and also loved the story sounded fun and hot.

 

[Brodie888]

Firstly, keep your expectations low. The first time will probably be awkward, clumsy and you will probably be in your own head more than enjoying it.

It will get better. A lot better as you come to understand how your body works, how to read your partner during sex and the confidence that comes with both.

You can get a head start with learning how to clean properly, how to relax for penetration and what precautions you need to prevent STIs.

 

[SgtGirth]

So I'm not going to answer your question. The experience of sex is indescribable. There's no way I could do it justice. I won't even try. You need to experience it for yourself.

Instead, I'll give some advice for your first time(s) beyond finding someone who's just physically attractive.

Seek out someone whom you trust. It need not be someone whom you are in love with (I could make an argument for why it shouldn't be actually). But it should be someone you know won't be exploiting you because of your youth or your inexperience.

You want someone who gets off on his partner's enjoyment of sex. How do you know? They tend to have a wide "repertoire" of sexual activities to draw on rather than focusing on doing just one or two acts to the exclusion of everything else. Listen to stories of their most memorable experiences. An ideal partner would be someone who got really excited because he helped someone else achieve their fantasy. Ask simple, straightforward questions like "What gets you off?" If it's all self-centered, maybe you find someone else.

You want someone who will also be taking this as an opportunity to instill safe and healthy habits in you. They should be taking the time to talk about HIV status, how to protect each other from STDs, and how to be a responsible and ethical sex partner. They should be willing to give you the time needed to get up and running (for instance, they should be willing to wait until you have started on PrEP).

Finally, you want someone with a good deal of experience as a sexual partner. This may lead you to getting with someone who's a bit older than you, but that's not necessarily a bad idea in any case. Sex is a skill like any other, and practice makes perfect. I've never believed that it's a good idea for two virgins to get together—it's a case of the blind leading the blind. In any other area of human existence, we'd never endorse it. Note that if there is any emotional follow-on effects, someone with experience is likely to be much better at understanding and working through that as well.

 

[briacon429]

Firstly, keep your expectations low. The first time will probably be awkward, clumsy and you will probably be in your own head more than enjoying it.

It will get better. A lot better as you come to understand how your body works, how to read your partner during sex and the confidence that comes with both.

You can get a head start with learning how to clean properly, how to relax for penetration and what precautions you need to prevent STIs.

I second this! Your first time is exciting in its own way, but it’s mostly mental. At least for me, I was excited to finally be doing it, since I’d built it up in my head, plus the sensations were all new to me. But it was also kinda awkward since I didn’t fully know what I was doing.

The really great sex came later, once I got the hang of what I was doing and what I really liked. It’s like anything else: practice makes perfect!

 

[LoveDoofies]

First, the experience is going to vary based on a lot of factors. The absolutely BEST thing you can do, is find a guy you trust to guide you through the process. You're going to be experiencing a lot of emotions and a lot of sensations. You'll want somebody there you can take your time with and who will not only be patient, but who will give you some pointers.

Sex is different every time. That's why some guys (myself included) sleep around. When I get a blowjob from a guy with puffy lips, it's tends to be soft whereas getting a blowjob from somebody with thin lips is firm. It's also going to depend on his technique. Does he use a lot of hand motion or just lips? Does he want to do it on his knees with me standing or does he want to lie on his back on the side of the bed while I deep throat face fuck him? There is a lot of variation. Unless he's really bad at it (scraping his teeth or doing something weird with his tongue), it's going to feel really good. If you're cut, it may not be enough sensation to get you to an orgasm. At least, that's true for me. It feels good, but not enough to finish. If you have foreskin, you'll not only be more sensitive, you'll have more sensations and options for oral sex that cut guys don't have.

As far as giving oral sex, again, it's going to vary from experience to experience. You may have a strong gag reflex. Don't feel like you need to deep throat somebody because you've seen it in porn. Sex is supposed to be fun. If it doesn't feel good, stop and do something else. But, if getting face fucked and gagging gets you off, do it! Be careful with scraping your teeth. Chances are, your jaw is going to hurt when you're done. You'll want to use lips, tongue, and hand together. Don't worry about it for now, you'll catch on and, again, find somebody to guide you. You'll smell his junk. Unless he just showered, it will be musky... it will be VERY musky if he has jock itch. Some guys like it. But I prefer to foreplay in the shower before sex.

Generally, I like guys with skinnier cocks. I don't like having a sore jaw after getting head. And, while I prefer to top, if he wants to top, I find skinny cocks still hit all the spots without a lot of the pain. So, don't think that just because guys in porn are huge that you're actually going to enjoy a huge cock.

As for topping, the next time you're in the shower, soap up your hands. Now make the OK sign, only make it tightly so you can't even push a pencil through the opening. Now try to push your cock through the opening. As you push and keep pushing, slowly release the OK sign until you can just barely push through. You should now have a very tight ring around your cock. If you thrust in and out, you can loosen the ring a little bit more, but still keep it pretty tight. That's basically what anal sex feels like for the top. Nearly all of the sensation is from the sphincter.

With bottoming, it's going to be a very intense sensation. You'll want to be well lubed. Like... a lot. More than you think. This will be your first time and you're not going to know how to relax. So lube is your friend here. If you can find a guy with a thinner cock, start with that. You'll probably be best squatting over him. That way you're completely controlling the speed and depth. (It's harder than it looks and easier to do on the floor than a squishy mattress.) It's going to be a challenge getting his dick inside. Your instinct is going to be to clinch. The best way to avoid this is to push out, like you're taking a dump. (Side note, be sure you are completely empty down there. Douche if you want, but even if you don't douche, be sure you've completely emptied your bowels). As you push out, you're actually opening up your sphincter, and that will let his cock in. After it's in, you're still going to want to cinch down. Again, push out whenever you get that sensation. It's probably going to be painful. I don't know any first timers who don't feel pain. It will feel like you tore something. And you probably did. You'll probably also feel a sharp pain if he goes in too deep too fast. You'll need to take a moment after he's in to simply relax and adjust. At first, it's probably only going to feel uncomfortable. BUT.... after he starts thrusting, the sensation starts to change from pain and pressure to something more intense that's hard to describe. Of all of the sex acts guys can do, bottoming is by far the most intense feeling. There's a reason why it seems like every gay guy is a bottom. Most guys find that they cum very quickly if they bottom. I know some bottoms who won't even touch themselves because they'll cum right away.

I'm not sure if this is what you're looking for. Don't be afraid of it. Know that it's going to be an overwhelming experience your first time. Find somebody you trust to do it with you. I've deflowered a few virgins, all of whom I've met online. Only one of them told me he was a virgin, the others didn't tell me until after. I prefer to know in advance because it's so much better to have your first time with somebody who takes their time to show you the ropes, rather than just another hook up.

Have fun and use a condom.

Hey so I’m sadly still a virgin but I have a few questions for anyone who is experienced in sex. My first question is what is anal sex like? from both sides giving and receiving describe everything if possible. My second and last question is what is oral sex like so blow jobs and ass eating I would like both sides giving and receiving to also describe everything if possible. Thank you to who ever responds hope you all are having a good day / night where ever you are in the word.