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Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by sundevil12, Oct 14, 2009.

  1. sundevil12

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    So I'm turning 20 in about 5 hours, and was just wondering if anybody loses attraction just because I'm not a teenager. And not necessarily just me...does anybody gain/lose attraction to someone based on age? Is there a huge difference between a teenager and a 20 year old? I guess it's more so a stereotype that older men/women go for younger partners, does the lack of "teen" mean anything for you?
     
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    The difference between 19 and 20, really, is minimal. Recently I've had cause to reflect on my 19 yo self, and it was unbearable. Dead end student jobs, engaged (then), study, dead end student jobs. Much prefer my life post 25
     
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    only people looking for teenagers will lose interest. such as other jailbait teenagers. or
    older people lookin for barely legals. as for everyone else, its Prolly a plus as far as age goes. i just turned 20 last march
     
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    Nothing to worry about! Even though i'm twenty myself, I wouldn't expilicitly go after a teenager. The problem that lies with the fact that people often bunch age with maturity, although they vary individually.

    Age to me, means nothing, with the obvious exception of extremes.

    I would imagine somebody that would potentially be attracted to you would be more glad to hear that you are 20 as opposed to 19, if age were to matter to them.

    But as I say, it's nothing to worry about, especially at 20. Get to 60 and come back lol
     
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    Maturity in a man, real or perceived, is sexy.
     
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    "Lack of 'teen'" means to me that a guy is no longer a teenager--nothing else. Some people would lose interest, I suppose, if they were teen-queens--but that's air-headed and superficial. An interesting man is an interesting man--period.
     
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    Some might consider you more mature than an average teenager...
    For some who are looking for teenage bodies and tight asses... you are still a game...
    The change over a year won't be a big difference but over a period of 2 or more year.. it would be large or apparent.....
    Mostly changes come from environment... so changes from 17 to 19 would be way greater than from 19 to 20.. since you moved from High school to college.. from college to grad school or job.. from single to married... from say Greenville, NC to Los Angeles, CA...

    An in the purview of law and those brutally precise filters of search engine, it takes is 1 minute to go from illegally getting a beer to legally entering a bar..... :D
    or being omitted from from having a hot lusty night coz the guy fed in 21 as lower age limit... hehehe...

    Ohh and still few more minute to go.. but happy birthday...
     
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    Happy birthday.

    I would bet that you will probably get more people attracted to you. You're not a 'teen', and you can almost drink legally (in America at least).
     
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    Well Happy Birthday, you are getting More Mature, therefore more Attractions are on the way.
     
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    Id rather be with a teen.
     
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    I hear you cock grows 2 inches on your 20 birthday, ha,ha
     
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    I know the feeling. I turn 21 in a couple of days and i'm fed up of everyone telling me "21 is the best age to be. Enjoy it" It makes me feel like after 21 I have nothing to look forward to. I mean i won't even been middle aged but i already feel like i'm past it urgh

    I was going to say don't stress about it but i apparently can't talk lol
     
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    It does matter here on lpsg, teens get more attention and people want to see more of teenagers...
     
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