"Gay" meant "sexually available" in 17th century London. In Victorian novels it was always used in an ambiguous way; if they meant "happy" they said "happy".
I'm not sure when it became a homosexual identifier, probably around the late 19th century when the concept of homosexuality was invented.
I'm only aware of it being used as a slur relatively recently.
Thinking of ML as gender-queer makes my heart pound. *lust*gender benders are hawt.
but the underwear!! think of the underwear!50's Household/Lifestyle = Stepford wife for real! ekkk!
but the underwear!! think of the underwear!
butch-boy, masculine identified female.
we just agreed to ignore the whole biologically female part. leather men have always been pretty accepting of the bio-fem-boys, bears have adopted us as mowglies. as long as we don't expect special treatment or use gender as a crutch.
i spent from about umm 15-19 living and iding as a butch-boy. from about 3-12 i was a tomboy. and umm 12-14 a rowdy boy.
is gender queering, sorry about the confusion :redface:
eta: is sometimes spelled "boi" i frickin hate the alternate vowel, i was/am boy. i worked hard at being a boy. don't diss me with ya "i"
from the intorwebz - A butch lesbian bottom/submissive that has earned the status as boi. To be called a boi is an honor in the BDSM world. A boi is very butch in a young type way. All bois are NOT young. They just carry themselves that way.
And you think that cleared it up??!!
I'm think I'm just too old....
or just not dyke/queer/leather enough :wink:
I personally live a reversed 1950s household. my husband cooks , cleans and brings me my slippers and wine when I get home where I work all day bringing home the bacon and discipline him when he is in need of it.
I am very surprised that it is not online as a fetish and laugh when i read how submissive some ladies are in this fetish
I am very surprised that it is not online as a fetish and laugh when i read how submissive some ladies are in this fetish
I personally live a reversed 1950s household. my husband cooks , cleans and brings me my slippers and wine when I get home where I work all day bringing home the bacon and discipline him when he is in need of it.
I am very surprised that it is not online as a fetish and laugh when i read how submissive some ladies are in this fetish
If he would want me to be a 50s housewife, then the only pearl necklace I would wear would be a cultured 16 inch 9mm strand. He could forget everything else.