1st Time Bottoming

[Bennyyang]

Hey all. I just got done experiencing my 1st time bottoming. I have never had anything in my ass besides my two fingers. Also it was a 3some. Seemed like one of the guys was a discreet married man. There were two of us that was there to bottom.

I can't say that I enjoyed it. Lol. But I finally did it.

 

[Brodie888]

Congratulations on popping your cherry!

With experience you'll learn what works and what doesn't for you. It's also much better to have a top who knows how to fuck an ass properly so take that into consideration too.

 

[Jaytt8]

Didnt enjoy my first time either use to think of myself as a bottom when i would watch Penn but when iactually tried it didn't enjoy it maybe after a couple times who knows

 

[Bennyyang]

Congratulations on popping your cherry!

With experience you'll learn what works and what doesn't for you. It's also much better to have a top who knows how to fuck an ass properly so take that into consideration too.

I hoping so! I want to eventually ride like a pro. Lol

 

[Bennyyang]

Didnt enjoy my first time either use to think of myself as a bottom when i would watch Penn but when iactually tried it didn't enjoy it maybe after a couple times who knows

I'm really hoping so. But I'm not sure I want to do it again just yet.

 

[101b]

What did it feel like for you o new to this too and wanna try it ??

 

[Southlincsnudist]

For me it was ok, not the feeling I was expecting & felt a bit let down in that way, but it was a turn on to have a guy fuck me, so I would say personally it’s more the deed than the feeling that leads me to occasionally bottom

 

[Brodie888]

I hoping so! I want to eventually ride like a pro. Lol

On the topic of riding, generally it's recommended for beginners to start on top in one of the many cowboy position variants until you get to know how your body works and relax properly.

 

[Bennyyang]

What did it feel like for you o new to this too and wanna try it ??

It hurt. So use a lot of lube. When the dick made it inside of me, i felt the sensation of having to use the bathroom for #2. Once it's in you just sit on it a while to get use to it.

 

[cedarizzo]

I hope you do try it again, just give it some time before you try it the second time. The first time for me was horrible. As soon as he got his dick inside of me, it was over. It hurt so bad, I said I would never do it again. But 10 years later, I was with my 1st boyfriend and it was incredible. He was a very good top. He used plenty of lube, worked his fingers in before even trying his dick. He took his time, letting me get used to it before he fucked me. After we both came, we laid there for about 15 minutes before we went at it again and again. Good luck with your second time.

 

[Bennyyang]

I hope you do try it again, just give it some time before you try it the second time. The first time for me was horrible. As soon as he got his dick inside of me, it was over. It hurt so bad, I said I would never do it again. But 10 years later, I was with my 1st boyfriend and it was incredible. He was a very good top. He used plenty of lube, worked his fingers in before even trying his dick. He took his time, letting me get used to it before he fucked me. After we both came, we laid there for about 15 minutes before we went at it again and again. Good luck with your second time.

Thanks. I think I might have enjoyed it more if the top liked kissing. I find myself needing/giving sensual kissing/licking to enjoy the sex. I'm not a fan of hitting it and leaving right after.

Speaking of, I met this really cute hung 19 yr old on grindr and he wanted a bj from me. BUT he doesn't kiss. I gave him a great BJ (he told me). Especially since he came within 5 mins. Since it happened so fast and he didn't like kissing. It was probably one of my worst meet up eventhough he was really cute.

 

[101b]

It hurt. So use a lot of lube. When the dick made it inside of me, i felt the sensation of having to use the bathroom for #2. Once it's in you just sit on it a while to get use to it.

That’s pressure like having to use the bathroom is horrible

 

[MusicBear88]

So much depends on the top's experience and skill!

 

[Brodie888]

That’s pressure like having to use the bathroom is horrible

Your brain is just getting confused because it's not used to your ass being fucked. Over time your brain will be able to differentiate the two situations.

 

[Brodie888]

So much depends on the top's experience and skill!

I find the bigger the cock, the more skill that's required. But often big boys are never made to learn because so many guys want them, there's no reason to learn.

 

[Bennyyang]

Your brain is just getting confused because it's not used to your ass being fucked. Over time your brain will be able to differentiate the two situations.

I hope you are right. Lol

 

[Bennyyang]

I find the bigger the cock, the more skill that's required. But often big boys are never made to learn because so many guys want them, there's no reason to learn.

I have a buddy with a pretty big cock, 8+ inches. One day I'll have the courage to ride him.

 

[Brodie888]

I hope you are right. Lol

Best thing to do is to get yourself some toys and experiment in the shower.

Being fucked for real is better but at least this way you can work things out without performance anxiety.

 

[Beanie]

My first time bottoming I was drunk, so I didn’t really feel much of anything. All I know is the more bottomed the more I enjoyed it. Right now, I’m vers, but I crave a good dicking

 

[Jaytt8]

I'm really hoping so. But I'm not sure I want to do it again just yet.

I want to but when i try its just too painful since im so tight amd of course the guy topping me wants to keep going but i jist cant stand the pain