1st time bottom prep

[dfw051980]

So me and my fuck buddy decided to start flipping and he’s gonna top so I can start becoming more verse. You guys have any helpful tips so I can prepare for the time I decide to bend over. It’s not exactly my first time but it’s been a really really long time, and the last guy was quite small so it was just enough for me to feel but not enough to make it uncomfortable really.
My guy now is a healthy 7ish inches when he’s fully hard so it’s definitely gonna be more intense for me but I do trust that he’s gonna go easy on me.

But on my end what should I be doing to prepare myself these days leading up to it?

 

[briacon429]

So me and my fuck buddy decided to start flipping and he’s gonna top so I can start becoming more verse. You guys have any helpful tips so I can prepare for the time I decide to bend over. It’s not exactly my first time but it’s been a really really long time, and the last guy was quite small so it was just enough for me to feel but not enough to make it uncomfortable really.
My guy now is a healthy 7ish inches when he’s fully hard so it’s definitely gonna be more intense for me but I do trust that he’s gonna go easy on me.

But on my end what should I be doing to prepare myself these days leading up to it?

It depends. What part are you worried about?

If it’s his size, that’s easy: if you can take a properly-sized dildo, you can take his dick. (If need be, you can try practicing with a toy.) But if it’s something else, the solution might be different….

 

[dfw051980]

It depends. What part are you worried about?

If it’s his size, that’s easy: if you can take a properly-sized dildo, you can take his dick. (If need be, you can try practicing with a toy.) But if it’s something else, the solution might be different….

I’m more asking about making sure I’m ready clean and prepped . Diet recommends and things to eat or not to eat beforehand (making sure there are no accidents when I’m expecting to bottom). Also opinions on ducheing cause I’ve read conflicting things on that topic.

 

[winesthel945]

Still the best guide: How to Clean Your Ass Before Anal Sex

 

[briacon429]

I’m more asking about making sure I’m ready clean and prepped . Diet recommends and things to eat or not to eat beforehand (making sure there are no accidents when I’m expecting to bottom). Also opinions on ducheing cause I’ve read conflicting things on that topic.

I agree that guide is good. Here are my two cents:

The main thing to watch is to eat a high fiber diet for at least a day or two before sex. (Remember, it takes about a day for food to pass through your body.) I personally don’t have any specific foods to recommend, because any high fiber foods will do. You know your digestion better than anyone else, so just avoid any foods that are known to give you trouble.

To be clear, the risk of an accident is always there. But if you eat right, you’ll keep the risk nice and low. (On the off chance that something does happen, most guys understand. It’s part of what comes with fucking an ass!)

I’m not necessarily opposed to douching, but I’m not a huge fan of it either. It’s a lot of work for not much benefit. It does make some guys feel cleaner, so if that’s how you feel, go for it. Just beware, in some cases it can even be counterproductive: if water goes up past your colon, it can cause a mess. So my personal preference is to avoid that extra trouble and skip the whole process!

Beyond that, just take a shower before meeting the guy. That‘ll get you as clean as you need to be, and you’ll be all set!

 

[chrisrobin]

I really do laugh at the time some guys take getting ready to take it up the bum. Diets, not eating certain things for days before, douching oh my god, where is the spontaneity in sex these days?
Back in the day it's out after work, drop in at a bar of "gropy" cinema, get picked up and back to his or mine for a fuck. Very rarely did accidents happen and if it did it was part and parcel of events - no one screams or had a fit. In none of my relationships did I douche. How can you predict days ahead you are going to have sex - or do you spend all your time living as if its going to happen?