20 and still a virgin.

[SomeGuyOverThere]

at what age do you consider to be to old to be a virgin for a guy?

Society seems to hold that you're too old after the age of consent

I've never been on speaking terms with Society.

 

[Principessa]

the big 'i need to lose my virginity!' issue should come second to the big 'i really love you and want to start getting physical' issue.

I agree and 20 isn't too old to be a virgin. If the OP were like 27 or 30 and still a virgin that would be weird.:wink:

 

[D_Jared Padalicki]

I agree and 20 isn't too old to be a virgin. If the OP were like 27 or 30 and still a virgin that would be weird.:wink:

That is weird that YOU say this, because you laugh enough with me about me being a virgin!

 

[Principessa]

That is weird that YOU say this, because you laugh enough with me about me being a virgin!

Pieterjoke, I have no problem with you being a virgin either. :no: I have always said that being a virgin in your mid to late 20's or later is weird. Wouldn't you rather be known as Pieter the world famous physicist, rocket scientist, cardiovascular surgeon, cancer researcher or lawyer than Pieter the 28 year old virgin. Cause once you hit your late 20's that's how people start referring to you.:redface:

 

[D_Jared Padalicki]

Pieterjoke, I have no problem with you being a virgin either. :no: I have always said that being a virgin in your mid to late 20's or later is weird. Wouldn't you rather be known as Pieter the world famous physicist, rocket scientist, cardiovascular surgeon, cancer researcher or lawyer than Pieter the 28 year old virgin. Cause once you hit your late 20's that's how people start referring to you.:redface:

That is your opinion, but that still don't give you the right to laugh with people who are virgin. And yes you do that. Last post of you that I remembered about it, was you saying that the person who started the thread shouldn't listen to me because I'm a 20 year old virgin.

And if I'm still a virgin at age 28, I will be Pieter the famous Architect and virgin. Because most people know what is important and aren't narrow minded.

 

[Countryguy63]

Hi Hakuna,

Don't pressure yourself so much about who should be first. It will be your "first" time with a girl, and your "first" time with a guy. And no matter which happens first, it's not going to permanently effect your orientation. It may sway it one way or the other, but whatever you are attracted to will always remain.
Let me ask you this...IF you find out that you are mostly or completely straight, what is going to matter if a guy was the first, or second or third experience that you had? You can visaverse that with the same question.

I'll also let you know, that I don't particularly remember my first encounter of either gender.

Relax, take the pressure off, don't worry about performance, just enjoy it when it happens.

 

[Principessa]

That is your opinion, but that still don't give you the right to laugh at people who are virgin. And yes you do that.

I know I do, because I think it's funny, odd, and flat out bizarre. I grew up on the tail end of the sexual freedom era. So all you young people afraid to do it for whatever reason, or who are waiting to be in love, or find 'The One' to lose your virginity to, make NO sense to me.

Last post of you that I remembered about it, was you saying that the person who started the thread shouldn't listen to me because I'm a 20 year old virgin.

Jesus Christ! That was like 3 months ago, GET OVER IT! :irked: There are some things that you learn in life from expereience and at 21 you just don't have the life experience. It's nice that you can quote Kinsey and other experts but the fact of the matter is reading about driving an 18 wheeler and actually doing it are 2 completely different things. Same goes for sex.

And if I'm still a virgin at age 28, I will be Pieter the famous Architect and virgin. Because most people know what is important and aren't narrow minded

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QUOTE] Oh for petes sake, stop being so thin skinned! This is the internet, not nursery school. My feelings get hurt here a dozen times a day, and you don't see me whining about it in the threads. Nor do I sick the gay mafia on anybody. :angryfire2:

FWIW: By 19 I had, had a 3some with two bisexual men. So spew that narrow-minded crap elsewhere dude.

 

[D_Jared Padalicki]

I know I do, because I think it's funny, odd, and flat out bizarre. I grew up on the tail end of the sexual freedom era. So all you young people afraid to do it for whatever reason, or who are waiting to be in love, or find 'The One' to lose your virginity to, make NO sense to me.
Nothing makes sense to you when it comes to stuff you didn't experienced. You are now assuming that we are (I'm) afraid of sex, that that is the reason I didn't got laid yet. You don't think there is another reason, and that shows how narrow minded you are, and that is a shame.

There are some things that you learn in life from expereience and at 21 you just don't have the life experience. It's nice that you can quote Kinsey and other experts but the fact of the matter is reading about driving an 18 wheeler and actually doing it are 2 completely different things. Same goes for sex.
And there you go wrong AGAIN, at 21 you can have more life experience then people who are older. The problem is that the older people always forget that when they were younger, they also liked to be heard and listened to.

And if I'm still a virgin at age 28, I will be Pieter the famous Architect and virgin. Because most people know what is important and aren't narrow minded

.[/

QUOTE] Oh for petes sake, stop being so thin skinned! This is the internet, not nursery school. My feelings get hurt here a dozen times a day, and you don't see me whining about it in the threads. Nor do I sick the gay mafia on anybody. :angryfire2:

FWIW: By 19 I had, had a 3some with two bisexual men. So spew that narrow-minded crap elsewhere dude.
I'm not hurt, far off, I just keep mentioning it because you do that everyone on the board. And having a threesome at age 19, doesn't that make you a slut?

Just show respect to people, instead of saying bad things the whole time so people have the idea that everything they think are bad thoughts and ideas.

 

[dolfette]

well i don't think it's weird.
this obsession with cherry popping is only a few decades old.
in the past it wasn't at all uncommon for people not to have sex until they wed...usually young but not always. and the unwed sometimes died virgins.
shit, the wed often died virgins too! the days when homosexuality was illegal and sex education didn't exist.

it's only sex ffs.

i might die without ever having eaten caviar. i'm not losing any sleep over it.

 

[polesmoker]

I have had three virgins, the last one was 21 and he learned very quickly. If you are saving it for whatever reason, be proud and don't give it up just so people will think you are less weird.

 

[798686]

Dolfette - I agree. Who gives a shit anyway?

 

[flame boy]

I think we should all agree to disagree on this matter. Some people may think it is odd, some will think it's perfectly normal. Try to remember that when it comes to peoples opinions there is no right or wrong answer

Love from your friendly neighborhood flame boy.

 

[D_Humper E Bogart]

I think we should all agree to disagree on this matter. Some people may think it is odd, some will think it's perfectly normal. Try to remember that when it comes to peoples opinions there is no right or wrong answer

Love from your friendly neighborhood flame boy.

Wisdom from a Flamer? OK, this is just getting dumb now.

 

[Symphonic]

You've got a disease. You're going to die.

 

[D_Tina_Ciao]

Symphonic, you are a rascally rabbit! lol. Have to laugh at you. :smile:

I do agree there will be no consensus of opinion - too varied a membership, age, belief, and experience variance.

Just live and let live, folks. (Libra/peacemaker here - sorry)

Hugs and kisses all around. :grouphug:

 

[D_Humper E Bogart]

You've got a disease. You're going to die.

"The Crime is life, the sentance is DEATH!"
Guess the quote

 

[Hakunamatata]

^ LOL

Thank you guys

 

[Darkriff]

feel free to ignore the pricks OP. Ive gotten some shit aboit getting my dick pierced, I personally give two fucks less what other people think of me and my life. Absorb the information from those that are willing to help and screw the rest. Besides, odds are that some of them only have the balls to run their mouth online and were beat up in school. As far as the topic, I was a virgin till 21. I personally wish I had waited for my wife, but shit happens. Again, I could care less what others have to say about me and my life unless theyre willing to start paying my bills and take care of my kid. I have no use for input that doesnt directly affect me. I would just say to step it up and itll happen when it does. About the others saying that someone would leave u because of bad sex.... bullshit. They slept with u because they loved u, not because they were horny. If they were, then just sure u know the person ur with so that doesnt happen.

 

[eurotop40]

First of all being virgin or not is only your private business.
People need not to know who you are or are not sleeping with (it is not the Monica Lewinsky trial here).
I was a virgin until my mid 20's baxically because I could not make a split between sex and relationship. Later on I caught up so that I really have no regret.
It makes me mad when I realize that my kids are under peer pressure and people tell them they are not normal if they do not fuck by the age of 14. Totally sick!

 

[pbnation]

I'm 18, and I'm a virgin. It doesn't bother me so bad, I am more bothered by the fact that I haven't kissed, had a gf, or touched/been touched in a sexual manner.