20 and still a virgin.

[D_Tina_Ciao]

I'm 18, and I'm a virgin. It doesn't bother me so bad, I am more bothered by the fact that I haven't kissed, had a gf, or touched/been touched in a sexual manner.

Don't worry, sweetie, when the time is right and you have opportunity, you'll have a gf and everything will fall into place - you're still so young. Give it time (and maybe make a move on a girl). :wink: :smile:

 

[tson]

"however, if he's not ready and it goes badly..it can have psycological effects on him that will resurface everytime he has sex or tries to have sex....in turn which could cause erectile dysfunction.'''
Have you read it somewhere or did it happen to you?
I think thats what happened to me. Fuck

 

[silentview]

the big 'i need to lose my virginity!' issue should come second to the big 'i really love you and want to start getting physical' issue.

QFT...

my own advice is just to relax, its not like you HAVE to do it. just feel things out and do what ever comes naturally, if that means waiting until you figure out your sexuality then so be it and if you try one and decide on the other its not going to be the end of the world, you just move on.
best of luck

 

[420p]

i'm pretty well much a virgin,
only had 1 partner when i was very young.... got caught by the parents so was scared for a little while.

then ended up being chronically depressed which lead to body image issues and then a loss of self confidence to go out and meet people..

now that has come to being afraid of not "performing"

 

[CVCArules]

im 18 and still a virgin. dont like it but i love my girl

 

[SR_realpat]

20 and virgin in some part here too