hey people im 21 years old, and sadly im still a virgin. I have been in relationships before but sex never came up. i have just started seeing this chick and would like to go all the way with her. im just nervous as hell that I dont know what Im doing and dont want to fuck it up. I have kissed chicks before but never been there. On the first time do guys usually go down on the chick before sex? or just go straight for it?