22 Y.o. Virgin

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Best approach to lose your virginity? To do it right, first don't make that your only goal. If you force it you'll probably regret it.

If you're really really desperate then seek out a sex worker and explain what you want to do. They're the experts and have probably had experience in these matters.

But don't just foist yourself on the first available partner. Make love with your mind before you do it with your body.
 
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First things thing, it's not a big deal being virgin, so don't stress out too much about it. It'll happen when it happens.

If you don't seek it, though, it'll hardly happen. Nowadays there are plenty of apps you could sparkle some relationship, shallow or not, and seek out a desirable partner to lose your virginity. Some people even only use some apps to have sex, some others to meet new people. You might even find someone in a similar situation. Play it cool. Download some apps. Meet new people. Be honest with whoever you want to do it and find the right person.
 

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Best way? Not to have "losing my virginity" as your approach or goal. :cool:

If living life following your bliss doing the things you love doesn't attract anyone start doing what my mother advised me to do when I was brooding over rejection in high school: don't just ask out the girls on whom you have crushes. Ask out lots of girls. Men ask women say no. Only one in ten or twenty will say yes. You might be surprised who says yes and how much fun they are. Don't take rejection personally. Be warm & gracious in defeat and move on to the next. Those who reject you won't forget you had the courage to ask.

I took her advice. It changed my life. With a few successes my confidence soared. Ladies noticed. Within the confines of the high school social scene the more dates I had the more I got. It continued through college and since. Mom was right.

I'm assuming you're a straight male. If not the same advice applies.

Couple of things. It's just a date. Don't presume it means you're going to have sex. At the same time be prepared in case it does. Have condoms handy. After I missed an opportunity I started carrying one in my wallet and kept a stash.
 
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i lost my virginity at around 24-25 cant remember exactly, it was with my first girlfriend ever, i never said i was virgin and was too nervous i had problems keeping it hard, dont worry, might happen to you, take a viagra before to boost your self confidence, i am fat and over weight with an small looking penis, if you're of an average physic you will have no problems!
 

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Don’t rush it. Just let it happen. Nothing wrong with being a 22y old virgin. If it happens it happens. But don’t go trying to lose it just for the sake of losing it.

I don’t regret my 1st time with my girlfriend when we were really young, but I regret taking hers.