sangheili90
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Finding a person with whom you could have a potential relationship with can be a difficult endeavor for any guy, even more so for one who is looking for another man because very few men in the general population are gay. Typically people have their first relationships whilst in high school or college, as this creates an easy environment for dating due to literally being surrounded by tons of people who are around your age. Due to extenuating circumstances or just not being interested in dating people at that point in your life, once you get past college/high school meeting other people whom you may be compatible with becomes increasingly difficult so it is easy to see how one could get well into their twenties with no experience.
This is coming from a straight male, but common sense would dictate that if you are looking for a relationship it would be in your best interest to not put too much focus on meeting someone through grindr or at a bar, as those are primarily used for sexual hookups. I realize it's a bit different being a gay man, but it would be better for you to find someone in a more normal environment, say a social or something like that. Also, you need to take into consideration the demographics of your area, as this also can severely limit your potential dating prospects.
You are only 24 and far too young to be putting so much pressure on yourself about all of this, just do yourself a favor and not get overly attached with the first thing that comes along that may or may not be ideal for you. Create a set of standards for yourself and the people with whom you'd want to date or have a relationship, whatever that might look like for you.
Also, be prepared for the likelihood of meeting a lot of potential dating prospects who are already taken.
This is coming from a straight male, but common sense would dictate that if you are looking for a relationship it would be in your best interest to not put too much focus on meeting someone through grindr or at a bar, as those are primarily used for sexual hookups. I realize it's a bit different being a gay man, but it would be better for you to find someone in a more normal environment, say a social or something like that. Also, you need to take into consideration the demographics of your area, as this also can severely limit your potential dating prospects.
You are only 24 and far too young to be putting so much pressure on yourself about all of this, just do yourself a favor and not get overly attached with the first thing that comes along that may or may not be ideal for you. Create a set of standards for yourself and the people with whom you'd want to date or have a relationship, whatever that might look like for you.
Also, be prepared for the likelihood of meeting a lot of potential dating prospects who are already taken.