So guys which do you think happens to be better of the the two, having sex after not having jacked off or masterbated for a day or two or having jacked off before you have sex? They say the second nut is the best, which'd imply that either the 2nd round or masterbation first would make the sex "better' and last longer. Personally, the best sex I've had was after not having nutted for a few days and after a few drinks.