Hi all. Here is my situation: I am a 31 year old gay guy, I feel top and I am still a virgin. I know it's not the end of the world but it becomes difficult to live with over time. I want to be with someone and share a little tenderness, affection and intimacy. and of course, I have needs like any man, and my impulses and my frustrations are getting a little too big (I masturbate a lot).
I have often spoken with a guy on a dating app for the past two years and he is aware of my situation. He offered to meet so that I lose my virginity with him.Part of me would like to say yes. He knows I'm a virgin at my age and it doesn't scare him away, he knows I'm a compulsive masturbator and he doesn't judge me. My cock wants to meet him.
But on the other hand I don't dare. He's nice but I'm not close to him, I don't trust him, I'm not attracted to him and even though we've been talking for a long time, I'm suspicious of him. I feel like he just wants to fuck with me. I want to have sex, but I never imagined losing my virginity this way, with a guy who doesn't appeal to me.
Suddenly I don't know what to do. To lose my virginity with him or not? Or wait even if that means being frustrated for a while.
Thanks and sorry for my english, I'm french.
I have often spoken with a guy on a dating app for the past two years and he is aware of my situation. He offered to meet so that I lose my virginity with him.Part of me would like to say yes. He knows I'm a virgin at my age and it doesn't scare him away, he knows I'm a compulsive masturbator and he doesn't judge me. My cock wants to meet him.
But on the other hand I don't dare. He's nice but I'm not close to him, I don't trust him, I'm not attracted to him and even though we've been talking for a long time, I'm suspicious of him. I feel like he just wants to fuck with me. I want to have sex, but I never imagined losing my virginity this way, with a guy who doesn't appeal to me.
Suddenly I don't know what to do. To lose my virginity with him or not? Or wait even if that means being frustrated for a while.
Thanks and sorry for my english, I'm french.