So I'm a 32 yr old virgin (in literally every sense of the word); but not really by choice. I'm the first to admit that I am overweight (100kg), hairy and can be an introvert at times; but I have only ever had 1 date in my life and never even been kissed or done anything with a guy. I'm not beautiful, but I also don't think I'm ugly either...so I always question what is so wrong with me that I can't even get a simple date.
I've been on dating sites and apps for years now. I am upfront on my profiles and state that I'm a total virgin; and I'm wondering if this is such a red flag now that it drives guys away. Does telling guys that I'm a virgin make them wonder the same thing I do; what is wrong with me? Or are guys just so shallow now in a world of social media that anyone that isn't a hot jock or something, can't even get a date?
What I ask is that anyone who was in a similar situation give me advice on how to get over this hurdle please.
I've been on dating sites and apps for years now. I am upfront on my profiles and state that I'm a total virgin; and I'm wondering if this is such a red flag now that it drives guys away. Does telling guys that I'm a virgin make them wonder the same thing I do; what is wrong with me? Or are guys just so shallow now in a world of social media that anyone that isn't a hot jock or something, can't even get a date?
What I ask is that anyone who was in a similar situation give me advice on how to get over this hurdle please.