35 years old and a virgin, what do you think?

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Hi everyone,

Just a question: a 35-year-old guy who's still a virgin, what do you honestly think? Shame? No big deal? A desperate case?
I'm asking because that's me. I'm not very proud of it, but that's life. I just want your honest opinions. Thanks in advance.
 
I've gotten to the point in my life, and I'm not that old. Where I could care less about something that trivial. If you think it's a big deal, then you should seek a therapist for more guidance in dealing with your virginity.
 
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Hi everyone,

Just a question: a 35-year-old guy who's still a virgin, what do you honestly think? Shame? No big deal? A desperate case?
I'm asking because that's me. I'm not very proud of it, but that's life. I just want your honest opinions. Thanks in advance.
I don't think it's a big deal. Sex is personal and should happen when you're ready.

If you're not proud of being a virgin, what's holding you back?
 
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If you really wanted to fuck, you would. You haven’t, so when it comes down it, it hasn’t been that important to you.

There is nothing wrong with your virginity.
 
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I don't think it's a big deal. Sex is personal and should happen when you're ready.

If you're not proud of being a virgin, what's holding you back?
I have a complex about my appearance; I don't think I'm attractive, whether in my face or body. I'm also afraid of illness. And finally, how can I explain to a potential partner my lack of experience at my age?
 
I have a complex about my appearance; I don't think I'm attractive, whether in my face or body. I'm also afraid of illness. And finally, how can I explain to a potential partner my lack of experience at my age?
The same way man. Don’t sweat it.
Some people have a lot of sex and then decide they don’t am want to do it anymore. No one bats an eye.

Focus on being a good person and considerate with your partner. The rest can be solved with a conversation and then just get it out of the way (have sex) once you feel is the time.
 
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I have a complex about my appearance; I don't think I'm attractive, whether in my face or body. I'm also afraid of illness. And finally, how can I explain to a potential partner my lack of experience at my age?
The comments and likes on your photos and videos tell me that many men like your appearance and find you attractive. I hope you find someone that you feel comfortable with and get it in! Lol! Hang in there!
 
No one cares if you're a virgin EXCEPT you.

I know you crave intimacy, but it's hard to find these days.

We're better off alone than in bad company.

Take care, buddy.
 
34 year old here, not done anything sexual with anyone since like 2012, so I'm not a virgin but can probably be recalled an honourary one at this point.

It's somewhat unusual to be a virgin at 35, but everyone's journey is different, don't feel bad. One problem that I had (non-physical) it took me until 33, almost 34 for it to even click what it was to get help for it. Sometimes certain things just don't work out as quickly as they seem to for others, but at 35 it's not too late!
 
I was a virgin until 31, so I can relate to some degree. I certainly think how you look shouldn't be holding you back. What I've seen in your gallery is very arousing to me. Your cock looks thick and delicious!

As far as worry about your lack of experience... most anyone would be excited as hell to be your first experience! Being able to give a virgin their first orgasm would be incredible for me!
 
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Hi everyone,

Just a question: a 35-year-old guy who's still a virgin, what do you honestly think? Shame? No big deal? A desperate case?
I'm asking because that's me. I'm not very proud of it, but that's life. I just want your honest opinions. Thanks in advance.
Desparate case.... ;P
(well, when you get a LOT older and, don't have any "action" due to size...
Then health issues... yah.
If you get laid, you get laid... if you don't .. people can go fuck themselves on their opinions (hell, I'm included in THAT list)
 
Salut :) ayant eu ma première relation sexuelle un peu tard (24 ans, en moyenne c'est 17 ans en FR) je vois de quoi tu parles, j'ai moi même du faire un effort pour surpasser le blocage mental sur mon corps et ma capacité à attirer les mecs. Franchement te met pas la pression, la solosexualité c'est bien aussi et on peut prendre son pied tout seul de plein de manières différentes ! Au moins tu connais ton corps et ce que tu aimes... Et dis toi que si tu as déjà eu un rapport soft avec un mec, juste se branler/sucer, sans pénétration, t'es plus "vierge" (arrêtons de mettre la sodo au centre de tout). Et je penses qu'il y a beaucoup de mecs qui te trouvent très sexy ;) et qui auraient envie de te faire découvrir plein de choses !
 
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I have a complex about my appearance; I don't think I'm attractive, whether in my face or body. I'm also afraid of illness. And finally, how can I explain to a potential partner my lack of experience at my age?
First of all nothing wrong with being a virgin.
Nothing wrong with your face. If you're unhappy with your body hit the gym. And what do you mean you are afraid of illness? STDs? Use a condom. Most potential partners probably couldn't care less or it would even be a turn on for them.
 
Hi everyone,

Just a question: a 35-year-old guy who's still a virgin, what do you honestly think? Shame? No big deal? A desperate case?
I'm asking because that's me. I'm not very proud of it, but that's life. I just want your honest opinions. Thanks in advance.
There is no shame in being a virgin because there’s no real achievement in losing it - Virginity is a made up concept having no actual bearing on who you are as a person, wether or not you still have it.

No matter how old you are, you should only have sex when you’re comfortable and feel ready to, not a moment before. Don’t think about it too hard, if you want to have sex, I promise you’ll find it when it’s time.
 
Hi everyone,

Just a question: a 35-year-old guy who's still a virgin, what do you honestly think? Shame? No big deal? A desperate case?
I'm asking because that's me. I'm not very proud of it, but that's life. I just want your honest opinions. Thanks in advance.
Is it by choice? Why. Ur not small anyone would like to be with u
 
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