36% of moms aware of masturbating

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  1. ginger_qboy

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    I recently saw data showing 36% of moms knew their early adolescent son had begun masturbating in 1991.

    My question for the moms and dads on this site is,
    "how did you find out/realize that your early-teen was masturbing?"

    i remember our doctor asking me at around age 10 "do you masturbate? are you masturbating?" something along those lines... my mom who was in the room during the exam said "no, not yet" before i could answer. i had no idea what masturbating was! how did my mother know that i did or didn't??? side note: i can't ever ask her. long story.

    I'm guessing the 36% of moms in 1991 only found out by catching them???
     
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    When I was 12, my mother called me downstairs and had me sit down for "a talk" and asked me if I'd started masturbating yet. I had no idea what she was talking about but it was clear from her tone of voice that I probably should have so I said yes. She gave me a five minute speech about how it was perfectly normal and I shouldn't feel at all guilty about it and doing it as much as I want and not to believe a word of any old wives tales I might hear from other boys and finally sent me back upstairs much to my relief.

    About six months later, after I hit the backboard for the first time, I thought "Jackpot!!"
     
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    not at all... i noticed right away...he went from hating to take a shower, to spending an hour in the shower.

    and kept making sure i knew to knock before coming into his room, which i always did anyways but he was concerned that i might forget.
     
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    i think it's great that your mom did that!!!

    I was given a book. I was told to tell my mom once i had finished reading chapter "x", when I did she asked if I had any questions. the whole set-up made it clear that chapter "x" was WAAAY taboo
     
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    Well, if you're the mother of a boy 12+....the answer is 99.9% yes. lol
     
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    haha. i know, i know.

    which boys DON'T masturbate??? it's the greatest thing - once discovered.
     
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    I was just gonna add that... 36% sounds more like it'd be the percentage who caught their kids. I can't imagine any enlightened modern day parent not actually knowing it's gonna happen.
     
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    i agree. i would expect parents to know that boys will masturbate.

    i think the 36% was refering to parents that knew once their son had begun ma

    sturbating or knew for certain that they were masturbating, rather than a more general idea that their son is probably masturbating.
     
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    Tee hee hee adolescent boys are so clueless. :biggrin1: Who do you think does the laundry and has to wash your cum rags and socks? Your mom, that's who! :rolleyes: :duh: I bet that's how many moms figure out this great mystery. :cool:
     
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    I started when I was 5 years old. Don't remember ever being caught though my grandmother nearly did catch me once. If she put 2 and 2 together she never said. My mother had the sex talk with me when I was 10 but masturbation wasn't mentioned. Years later she guessed I was fucking my g/f, but that's another story...
     
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    Let's not forget, girls masturbate too. LOL
     
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    My mom caught me when I was 12. She definitely knew then :)
     
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    i wouldn't mind catching you at 44 ;)
     
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    Hopefully, I'm not reviving a dead thread here... I started attending church at around 9 or 10. Naturally, when puberty hit, I was all over myself trying to figure out how I work. Unfortunately I had to rely on a book and that fifth grade orientation of the male body... Ironically, it wasn't the pastor or youth director but my own mother who told me of the "dangers" of masturbation. So once I found out how to do it, I made sure to never get caught. Let's just say I found out how to do my laundry earlier than most people do... To this day, no one has ever walked in on me with my dick in my hand!
     
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    I was brought up in the Arabic culture and I honestly believe they do not know what masturbation even is.
     
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    Two sons and yes I know they masturbate. Showers get longer, lotion has moved from the bathroom to their bedroom, and semen stains in underwear. My boys and I have a good relationship and we talk about sex and girls on a regular basis so it is no big deal. My oldest left a porno DVD in the player and I found it. I asked him how good it was and he said 6 times in one day good.
     
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    if my mom figured out i beat off i would freak out lol
     
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    I was not one of those boys. I cleaned up after myself. :biggrin1:
     
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    only 36%, i would have thought 100% should have guessed.

    they must be in denial that their little precious boys now have big dicks
     
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    My mom found out from tighty whiteties! After that I stop wearing them bitches!
     
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