My relationship for 5 years just ended. We never had any fight. But just like your marriage, we took each other granted. I caught him on a dating app looking for chat and friends but I confronted him. He said he was planning to talk to me about breaking up. So we ended our relationship over text messages.
After 2 days I called him and begged him crying to reconsider getting back together. He said break up is the correct decision because he doesn’t think I would change and be the man who takes him out , goes for vacations, stays at his home. It’s true that I was depressed for long time and have also very busy long work schedules.
This break was the slap for me. I took his love , his loyalty for many years as granted. Instead of appreciating him, working on our relationship, I did nothing and he left me. For the past 3 weeks, I am suffering. Crying every day, not eating, not sleeping, not able to work. Praying every single day to get back together.
if we get back together, I will make him the happiest man ever coz I am happy with him. My advise to you is, don’t lose your wife but work on your marriage, change your routines and appreciate each other. Coz trust me, you will regret and go back to her but it will be never the same again. Long terms relationships, marriages mean one thing : there is a person who can stand you for being you!!
and this is not easy to find!!!