Interesting... that's usually my strategy. But I did have a debate about this once, and I bet you can guess the progression:
Her: Men should put the seat back down when they are done.
Me: No, women should put the seat down before they start.
No, that's the man's responsibility.
Well, how about if I just leave it down, and don't lift it when I pee?
That's gross! You should lift it before you start, and put it down when you are done.
So what's the problem with me leaving it up?
I don't want to fall in.
Shouldn't you check it first?
If I go in the night, I'm too sleepy to check.
Well, if I go in the night, I'm too sleepy to check it, too.
Well, it's still your responsibility.
Ok, how's this: you leave it in whichever position you finish with. That way, the one who uses it more will already have it in the position needed.
But I don't want to touch it!
(I knew it, the truth finally comes out.) So, you think I want to?
Because I'm right, and I'll make your life miserable otherwise.
(uh, like you aren't doing that already...)
My argument exactly. Has always pissed me off and has always seemed as one of the many mini-power plays in MF relationships.
The only thing that finally won me over was when I caught the dog drinking from it and then wanting to lick me!?! Then again dogs don't ever live long enough to make it a lifelong habit, putting the seat down that is.:tongue:
As for the OP what a crock of ass kissing shit. If I can't have some of what I want it isn't equal. But I guess if it was aimed at the ham handed its all good.