I'm 21 years old. I havent had a girlfriend since I was 14 years old. Seven years ago I was dating a 6'5' girl one year older and nearly a foot taller than I. I cant remember what happened. One minute We are dating the next we simply are not. I never showed her my body, and neither she of me. We never even talked about sex nor marraige, yet the last thing she ever said to me is "...I'm celibate." Since then I've been in a funk, never getting back to the swing of things. Even now I attribute those words to my lack of love. I often flirt and still make advances towards women, even though the "I'm straight" story has bent to damn near gay. It's now become a concern. I can't get a girlfriend or even a guyfriend. Either ever girl in this town is already taken or I'm lacking something that other guys have. I don't think its confidence, or personality but it has to be something. If you are wondering why I put this thread here It's because I need a womens' perspective. Especially since it was a woman who crushed me so hard it still hurts. I'll upload some pictures (though a little skewed for reasons) to show how I look in case it's an appearance issue, and I'll respond to any questions or comments. I'm dead serious I don't want to be a 40 year old virgin, or worse...never.