I don't think it is just porn. I think porn is a small part resulting from a much much larger issue. It comes down to how we speak and what is said/not said.
When have you ever heard of a man having a small dick to be a good thing in the media? Me, never. The man can still be of quality as long as he MAKES UP FOR it. Be it money, personality, looks, height, career, oral god, what have you. As long as he can make up for it. He could still be a great guy.
When a man is well "endowed." When is it bad? When he can't use it. Or when his personality out weighs his dick size. Have you ever heard of a woman or man staying with another man who has a small dick just because he has a small dick? Lol I sure as fuck haven't. Even average, small and average in my experience have never been attributed with why someone stayed with their partner at all or even longer than they should have. I've heard that people have stayed for the sex which does not imply size at all and I've hear they stayed with their partner because of their big dick.
You can scan lpsg if you choose, I'm pretty sure there will be 0 or close to 0 cases where anyone mentioned that they or another person stayed with someone because their dick was small or even average.
Say you have a best friend. You both work at the same place. The place is filled to the brim with single women. Would you start a rumor about how small his dick is? No you wouldn't, you aren't some fucking demon. If you were going to spread a rumor about his dick size then it'd be about how fucking big or huge it is.
Would a woman ever grab a man's crotch while things are heating up and say wow that's so small? Probably not, unless she's just this horrible person. I couldn't imagine how devastating it would be. Even saying it was average would not be a compliment. Saying that it is big would definitely be a compliment.
I've never heard a single woman ever say that average or smaller than average look more appealing. I've heard they don't care, they all look the same, the one attached to their man looks the best, and bigger dicks look better.
We have all these men insecure about being too small. We don't have tons of men who are average thinking they are the shit. WHY? Because average and small aren't considered to be the best. Average is average. If average was considered better, we'd have way more secure average men and more insecure larger men when it comes to their size. If average was the best we'd have so many average men on this thread talking about how they have the best cock or making stupid goldicocks comments lol
We don't have droves of men with small cocks happy about being small rather than big because the chances of them hurting their partner is way lower. Definitely not the case. Definitely don't have men claiming that women in general prefer small dicks. We have many small, medium,large men with low confidence about not being big enough. When it comes to dick size, quantity is synonymous with quality. Sure you can be really skillful.. so what? If a larger guy is skilled he will just shit all over you, probably doesn't even have to be as skilled to do it anyways. That is a common mindset. We have so many men flaunting their dicks because of how big it is. Writing numerous posts about their experiences they have had just because of their big size. Many positive experiences. Things like how women will stare at it, approach them solely because of their size, cheat on their bfs/husbands to get some big dick, earth shattering orgasms that only result from when she's actually filled, etc etc etc.
This is only the tip, but I believe this is what is fucking men in their heads. Porn is just a result of this. It is not the other way around. Porn just happens to be more in your face which is why I think so many people talk about it. Rather than the more subtle monster that lurks about.
Also the fact being logically bigger in general is better(relative to the individual). If it were not, then it would all feel the same OR smaller would actually be better we'd have some alien world where billions of men were insecure and most men wish their they were smaller while a good number of their partners are fine with their largeness so long as they can use it xD. That sounded so ridiculous to type. Like some weird paradox lol There might even be a big Wally talking about how smalls are the best. If you are over 4 inches then you are a big and you are worse than smalls xD.
