Thank you, Bulldog! How interesting!
I tried not to look at this thread because I didn't want it to influence my answers.
I don't know how accurate my answers are. The wording of the questions kept messing me up. I find myself desiring the things that are missing in a relationship so that they're overemphasized, so I think that's why Acts of Service is so high. TheBoyfriend works A LOT and we have very little time together, so I often really want more help, and when he helps me, it means more to me than if he did not work so much, so that desire springs entirely from the circumstances of this relationship.
I realized while I was choosing that I don't posses an "ideal" when it comes to my mate. I want the person I'm with, without the flaws I perceive. :tongue:
I also found myself leaning more towards one answer than another because of things that TheBoyfriend is not good at doing, so I don't actually prefer the things he's not good at doing.
I don't really feel like my scores say anything about my personality, as it's a reflection of what works right now and what is missing in my relationship. For example, I love it when he gives me gifts, and he'll buy me small spontaneous gifts sometimes and that warms my heart because he thought of me, but I desire more of his time and help at home right now, so that score is through the roof. I bet if I took it again a month from now, it would be completely different.
Your Scores
6 Words of Affirmation
8 Quality Time
1 Receiving Gifts
12 Acts of Service
3 Physical Touch