To all the young dudes that may be reading this thread, a large percentage of women are completely clueless as to what they are actually looking for in a man, especially with most of the women that regularly troll on this forum. There is a reason why there are so many dysfunctional young women who are single mothers raising bastard children with no father in the picture at all.
Women that are raised in normal and functional households seek out men who help to create stability in a relationship, family, household, etc. Women that are raised in dysfunctional and chaotic environments are far more likely to be in relationships that are filled with drama, are chaotic and unstable.
Normal people look for the following in a relationship, this includes both men and women.
- Someone you are physically attracted to
- Is financially stable or on a track to be (college, trade school, eIstc.)
- No drugs
- No smoking
- No drinking beyond a social level or not at all
- Has his or her own social life
- Has his or her own hobbies that don't involve you
- Has no mental health or behavior issues
- No criminal history
- Otherwise normal and functional individual that doesn't exist on the fringe of society
Outside of these basic parameters, you start getting into more detailed variables regarding personal compatibility, but those don't become apparent until after spending a considerable length of time with that individual.