I love 69 because its EQUAL. Too many want inequality. Dominant, submissive. Top, bttm. Master, slave. Daddy, "son". So many have fantasies about the one in charge. Teacher, coach, officer, doctor etc. What i love best is 2 buds, friends, partners who respect each other, who are willing to give and not just take, who want to make their buddy smile and moan. 2 guys really connected will take each others lead about rhythm, depth, position, where they are touching and licking, to totally match each other. I dont like the posts about "whether I enjoy it or not" or worries about can i cum? or who comes first. Totally not the point. The point is thinking about your buddy, not yourself. And no dumb lazy selfish being passive and no arrogant selfish being dominant. Its about doing something awesome for your buddy, not youself. Both, at the same time. Perfect bonding. Thats what makes it great.