69 Preference

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  1. RawDog

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    {This is a general sex question, nothing related to sex with a large penis or a woman's issue, so I'm not sure if this post belongs in the "Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy" sub-forum.}

    Every woman I've slept with dislikes doing 69. Is this true for a majority of women? Is this true with guys as well?

    What's your opinion?
     
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    not one of my favs to be honest

    impossible to focus on, and enjoy, two things at one time
     
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    opposite here. i think only one woman i've slept with (out of a pretty big number) didn't want to- she was very quiet, studying to be an engineer in college, kind of self-conscious but loved getting fucked hard. many times 69-ing never came up because it was just a 1, 2 or 3-time affair. my wife doesn't like it where she's on top- but can't get enough where she's on the bottom.
     
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    My gf doesn't llike it either and that kills me. i absolutely love 69ing girls..
     
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    I love it and so have most of the men who I've dated/had relationships with. We can do it for hours!
     
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    most of the women I've dated haven't wanted me to go down on them. That could be because 1) they're shy or 2) I suck at oral sex. Or a combination of the two.

    But I think a lot of women get a little self conscious when a guy has his snout down there.
     
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    Or... 3) they just hate having oral sex being performed on them. Nothing to do with shyness, your skills, or the woman being self-conscious. Some women just don't like it.
     
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    or that.. but really.. who wouldn't like oral sex performed on them if they weren't shy and if it was done well?
     
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    Me. Really. I am alot of things but shy is not one of them. Had lots of experts try over the years but just decided one day to say, "The Hell with this. Why do I keep trying to like something just because most men think that ALL women do?"

    But really it's not a problem for me because my top ten men never even attempted oral sex on me. Top three never even brought the subject up even after at least two years of fucking each one of them. Maybe it would be different if I didn't like performing oral sex on them? I'm very generous that way.

    We're all different.
     
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    Hmm. My wife, with the few times we've performed 69, always prefers to be on top. The view's a lot better from there, she doesn't see my butt.

    Bingo! I've heard that reason a few times myself. Too self conscious, and too much like multi-tasking (as Nick4444 pointed out).

    I have yet to meet a woman that's said they don't like to have oral sex performed on them. I've heard of women that haven't met anyone good at it yet though.
     
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    I love 69ing but it is a mixed bag with the women I've been with (some do, some don't like it).
     
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    Hello. Nice to meet you. OK, now you've met one.
     
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    I've always made it clear upfront to the chicks and womens that I've banged that foreplay including 69ing to bring both of us off is an imperative prelude for better things to come. The nastier and kinkier, the better. It's ruined a few relationships, but I've always figured that a couple have to be compatible and that if it doesn't work in the bedroom, chances are that it won't work at all.
     
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    Nice to meet you too.
     
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    I like doing 69 with me preferably on top. I'd hold my hands under her thighs and spread them a bit. What's really discomforting is my GF usually gags taking my whole dick so I end up arching my ass up.
     
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    I like 69 lots. Sideways is easy, so is him on top.

    This one is super tricky but kinda fun:

    Sitting 69 Sex Position

    Best with a male partner who is in super dooper shape, and with a female partner who has decent upper body strength.

    Some women may not be all that crazy about oral because they can't cum from it. I know a couple like that.
     
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    I've tried 69 a few times, but have never found it very enjoyable. Partly it's difficult to focus on giving pleasure and receiving at the same time, and partly because I'm confident in my skills in cunnilingus and know I can nearly always give a woman an orgasm that way except when 69ing.
     
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    Oof... that looks painful.

    As to the OP, I love 69'ing but yeah, girlfriend isn't so thrilled by it. Shame :(
     
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    Haven't done that one, but have done this many many times
    Standing 69 Sex Position
     
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    A stripper in Denver did that to me during a lapdance! How cool!

    That's part of the fun in my opinion. The multi-tasking ebb and flow of it all. She sucks hard, I lick hard. She teases, I tease. It's all fun and games until someone loses an eye... or bites down too hard.
     
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