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Discussion in 'Women's Issues' started by aboveavg, May 16, 2007.
I know its not huge, but is it a good size for most of you?
baby, if you know how to work it real good, then that is definitly satisfactory to get the job done for sure..... (and women that love sucking cock as much as I do find that to be an IDEAL size)
For some yes, others no. That's a great size for sucking, but for fucking I prefer larger.
thats well above average. i cant see you getting any complaints
What about me,
Curious to know what the opinion of mine is.
Its about 5 1/2" long top side and about 5" around.
Your size is above average. You should get no comlpaints. Keep in mind that all the ladies here (or at least like, 90% of them) have quite a penchant for huge cocks (like 8, 9, 10 inches), cocks so big that many regular woman would be scared to take (or just wouldn't want to). I would honestly say that to the average woman (not a size queen) you are the ideal size--bigger than average, but not so huge to where it'll hurt them. To a size queen, you're not the best, but still satisfactory, which in itself is a pretty huge achievment since size queens are not satisfied by like 85% of cocks. You have a very well-balanced size, regular women don't need huge, 9-inch cocks to get themselves off. About your wife though, why does it matter so much if she can only orgasm in a certain position? That just means that in that specific position, you're triggering explosive, orgasmic nerves that otherwise wouldn't be triggered in another position. Even so, you're still making her orgasm anyways so why worry?
By the way, it seems she has picked up on your size insecurity (something you should definitely NOT have) by saying things like "it's so huge/a monster" etc. You COULD easily be the largest she's ever had, but I think she's just stroking your ego. Girls know how much size means to a guy. If she continues telling you things like that and you dont like it, just tell her that you're big but not the biggest out there or something to make her stop.
You have a size to be proud of plus you're getting your wife off. I don't understand why you're worrying about anything. Hope this helped.
Just for the record. the first time we had sex, she made the comments about my schlong, not me. I never mentioned anything or gave any indication that I was insecure about the size. I just wanted to clear that up.
But, I do thank you for the rest of your advice. I am very interested in making my wife as satisfied as she can be. That's all.
They do say "if it aint broke don`t fix it", and why worry about something you don`t need to.
It is also possible to try too hard
Its rather hard to understand for me at times why women have this strange craving for big dicks when in the actuality size hardly matters at all. The major thing is to get the act right and at the same time the mutual understanding too. Yet this is an issue which a lot of women fuss about including my wife too, only god can make these species understand.
i have a question about the size of my penis i am about 9 9 and a half rock hard it is pretty thick when i put it on a ruler it is about 2 inchs wide is that average or above my gf says its way above
7 X 5 is only as enjoyable as the person it's attached to.
Size is very important. When you get a vagina of your own, tell me otherwise.
Okay, I'll bite.
For me there is some truth in that, when I was younger (less experienced) size was not that important. The funny thing is that the first 6, yes SIX guys that I sex with were all 8" or bigger, including and honest 10 1/4" inches. So I just thought the average size was about 9 inches.
Yeah, I know young and dumb and full of cum, but then I began having sex with average guys and although I did prefer the large ones, I could cum with just about any size above 5" but then something began to change, whether mental or physical I found that size began mattering more and more to help get me satisfied.
As far as my other friends who prefer large men, most of them have had a very active sex life, so you may be on to something.
One last comment is that over the years my vibrator size has gone up and up and up to help keep me satisfied. Just remember, that I only climax vaginally not clitorally so it could be that I am more 'stretched' and I need more stimulation than I used to.