Yeah I know what you mean already M rouge ( can't spell lol) I already have limitations with the relationship im in. I think it might be a mental thing I dunno
Are you sadistic and want to make it harder on her? That's not a mental thing it's an ego thing.
My husband is the same girth and it's just WAY too girthy for my physical build.
Thankfully he is 7 inches long and I'm not struggling to take his length as well as girth. That would be a miserable thing.
You are 9 x 7 and want to get bigger. Why? You might end up with a woman like me who tears with sex for many years and you will have limitations. No fun. I feel sad for a man who is larger than nearly most guys on this site in girth and length and it's not enough in your mind.