Unless you walk around with a ruler, you "estimated" them to be 7 " or 9". Truth is you don't know. They could have been bigger or much smaller.
I can guarantee you I can pull out my cock in real life to 100 women and 100 would give different measurements of the same dick.
I do walk around with a tape measure. And even my estimates would be better than the average person's, because my business and several of my hobbies require me to measure things under a foot all the time. I take more small-scale measurements in a week than someone without my particular activities would likely have to do all year. I'm a pastry chef. I sew. I sculpt. I garden, and I'm very into arts and crafts. When I need to make an estimate, I'm accurate to within 1/4" every time when the time comes to measure for real before cutting something. You know what I need more often than anything else? 8" diameter. Today I need that 8" diameter 48 times. I know that's roughly the length of my left hand because I compulsively measure it. (Hey, we all have our quirks, and mine is harmless. My grandmother used to count all the items in her house every day. At least my compulsion only takes a minute.) I also know the distance between any two marks on my hands, and the distance between the most proximal wrinkle on my wrist and the most distal wrinkle on my elbow. I rarely have to rely on just my well-trained eye alone.
I measured the very largest ones with tape measure, and also measured some of the bigger-hung guys who wanted to do penile enhancement, so that they could see how crazy it would be to try to get bigger. It didn't work, by the way. Even seeing the numbers in black and white they wanted to get bigger. The rest, with the exception of my first two partners, I measured secretly, using my hands, and some seemingly reverent postures.
I'm sorry. You have to accept that you do not have the biggest dick in the world, and if your lady has gotten around, you do not have the only big cock, nor always the biggest she's seen. The guys with the smaller ones report that they avoid certain types of women (unusually attractive, overweight, wide hips, black, promiscuous,large butt, tall, and admit to liking big dicks or tell jokes about little dicks). I have read posts on other sites for years, even before I joined this site, from men with small dicks (or who think they have small dicks) who say they discriminate this way when finding partners. I have read from a smaller, but still significant number who just avoid sex altogether. You almost never hear about guys with big dicks saying that. Because of this, smaller guys just turn up for certain women much less often.
Statistics change drastically when real life happens. Sex is NEVER a random sampling. Ever. We would have to all fuck every (insert number here) person we encountered for that to happen. Instead we all choose certain body types, and personality types, and some of us abstain altogether. I'm sorry, but you'll just have to accept that your statistics turn to mush under the circumstances. I'm tall, I'm black, I've been overweight at several points along my journey, I've had a very high number of partners, and I'm known to gossip about sex with my friends. Based on what I've read, men with small dicks tend to avoid women like me, though for the record, I have enjoyed the men with small ones I did encounter. But out of the many men with whom I laid, the number who had average or smaller sized erections combined comes out under 10%. And I am pretty approachable. Think about women who are much prettier than I am, or who are snobby. They are going to get an even smaller percentage of smaller ones offered to them. That's just how it is.
yes 6.5" is rare 3-3 on for being turned down because of it...
Sorry to hear that. I would probably always at least try once I got that far with a dude.
What utter rubbish. I think you're spending too much time on this site - in my experience most men in the outside world don't devote nearly as much time to contemplating the size of their cocks as most on here and they certainly don't let it stop them chasing - or indeed successfully pulling - hot women.
Most straight men do not see the erections of the men they know, nor would those with insecurity about their junk likely confide it in a friend. Do your friends show you their erections? Do you measure them? Do they tell you how they feel about their dicks? After an encounter with a man with a 2.5" erection, Internet searches led to sites where the members were mostly men with small dicks. I read a lot on those sites, and joined one of them. I actually first heard of LPSG on a small dick site. Most of the men I've known did not talk to me about their genitals. Hardly any of the men I fucked talked to me about their genitals. But from what I've read on message boards, there is a lot of fear, self-loathing, and ignorance out there among the smaller endowed. They do specifically avoid certain types of women, and they say so repeatedly. They cannot be convinced to try. They cannot be consoled. They perceive slights that do not exist. They feel constantly bombarded by media messages that bigger is better. While I would bet the farm that it is just a small percentage, I would also bet it is a significant enough percentage to skew the dating pool. Have you ever been to the places where swingers and exhibitionists gather? I have. Guys with small and average erections turn up there, but nowhere near in the numbers of the bigger-hung gys do. Not even close! Well, to be fair, the percentage shifts enormously if the venue focuses on BDSM. LOTS of SPH guys turn up in those places.
And of course you either actually measured said dicks, or else you have the freakish ability to accurately distinguish, by sight alone, differences of an inch or two in a range of objects encountered at different times and so not compared side-by-side - just like all the other female LPSG-ers who claim to regularly encounter 9" penises six days a week and twice on Sundays. No need for tape measures in your house then.
I measured all but my first two partners. I started measuring girths, when I could, after the 15th or so. After the first three were so wildly different from each other, I became interested in measuring them. Some I have felt comfortable asking, some asked me to do it, but most I measured discreetly, with my hand. I think most men wouldn't want to know the exact size, because then they couldn't lie to themselves.
A member (no pun intended) well versed in statistics once calculated the statistical probability of encountering two (or it may have been three) partners 9"or greater in length. It was many millions to one against. God knows what the result would have been if he had thrown a 7" girth into the mix.
You should do the lottery.
Sex is not based on random sampling. That would be disgusting.
Ahaha I hope it wasnt serious, but like you said in your sign, Porn is not real life
No, porn isn't.