Jesus! "Bigtoad" here, and: Here's a question: (I am not a top-usually. But I'd like too, uh, top. No pain, and, well, a kiss or two, might help. I'm not aggresive, so to speak, but I would like to be 'Allowed', , , to try to feel/and be. I like both ways, I'm just being honest, and curious. Love, "Big toad"