I have had problems with most of my partners, Even will pleanty of lube and foreplay i usually get held back from making full penitrations with my cock.
I am 9 1/2 long and 7 1/4 thick.
If I take her deeply from behind she will start to cry out saying it hurts...
My current girlfriend says it hurts when I go all the way in and so we have to work it in gently and very slowly work up to speed. She says she would rather have me fuck her ass instead.
thankfully she gets off both ways, but I do have to be gentle.
She has told me that she likes smaller ones around 7 inches for real hard pounding sex.
Because of this she and I play around with others and she sets me up with her friends that want a large cock and she likes to watch me fuck them as her reward while she masterbates to the sights of us doing it in front of her.
She will even pull my cock out of my pants at public places unexpectantly just to show it to her girlfriends.
On the other hand i have set her up with smaller guys so she can have a variety also...
THE FEW EXCEPTIONS ARE:...My ex neighbors wife told me that (while having sex with her) she wanted to fuck me because she seen that I was a bit smaller then her husbands cock, and to prove it she showed me pictures that her husband has a 12 1/2 inch cock, and she showed me video of them having sex and she could take all of him and she said he caused her pain and discomfort, But thought she had to take it because until I came along she had never had another mans dick in her pussy or ass before.
I found it a huge turn on and she could easily take all of me in any hole.
until he finally caught us doing it we did it several times a week.
After that he would make her service both of us sexually at the same time and i even had sex with their daughter in front of her mother. (her dad was at work thankfully)
ANOTHER EXCEPTION....My ex wife could handle more of me easier and I bottomed out in her. she would control my depth of penitration also, But really liked it when I was all the way in, even if it hurt she said she liked it.
She has said that I still am the largest she has ever had and that it still made her hurt, but in a good way.
I try to be so gentle with all my partners, So I am still looking for a local woman that can handle all that god gave me. (or one willing to meet that can prove she can take it all)
a man in need...Grant