9" Too Big For Her

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by jelqer9, Jul 10, 2012.

  1. Big Ben IV

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    The size of the chick has nothing to do with the size of her pussy, just like guys size has nothing to do with the size of his dick. The tightest girl I have been with was also the biggest, weight and height. Dont worry about it till you get there.
     
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    Me and my girl still have issues to this day (a year strong) about how long and somewhat thick I am. Use plenty of lube, I can't fit in anyways but I let her decide how much she wants, you ask if it's too much, if you should slow down, put in more, etc.

    Eventually she'll get used to your size, give it time and patients
     
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    just fuck her and u will know !
     
  4. MrMXYZPTLK

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    All women are built differently, just like men. If you try a couple of times and it hurts her everytime, stop trying. She is not built for big dick.

    Some girls can take big dick, some girls can't. Just like some guys are big dicks and some guys don't.

    There is someone out there for everyone. But everyone isn't built for everyone.
     
  5. jelqer9

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    I was a virgin until my ex...some of y'all are mean! Lol
     
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    Dude..Im going to call bullshit on this story for one simple reason. You say your ex GF was a ho and she fucked a bunch of big dicks and got stretched out. Then you claim you started PE and now its tight like a virgin. That is 100% untrue. Your girth is not that huge for one and for another thing fucking a bunch of guys, hung or not does NOT stretch a woman's vagina. My God..do you really believe that? How do you explain older women with tight vaginas? Im over 40 and I've had sex literally thousands of times since I lost my virginity and my BF will attest to the fact that I am TIGHT inside.
    How do you explain women who've had babies which are about 6x the circumference of your dick and are still tight. Having sex does not stretch you out. Im sorry but that is not how the body works.

    Yes you have a large penis and yes it may hurt her but not because of anything youve done or who youve been with. If it hurts its because she's sensitive or shaped in a way thats not accommodating or maybe she's tight, but any woman can feel pain from any man, large or small. There is only one way to find out.
     
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    You are long, but not really that thick. So if it hurts you most likely am pushing too much of your meat in (for that particular moment ..).

    And I don't believe that PE can change your dick in a way that it feels too loose to a point she feels like a virgin. Just like that. Unless .. You weren't really hard before. With a floppy dick it of course will feel more loose.
     
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    What is jelqing anyway?
     
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    i have received the very same feedback from girls i have had sex after a break , and when i have been jelqing meanwhile. it really makes me - especially thicker , but longer also, because it makes me HARDER: for me it takes some time before i get fully hard, it happens usually during intercourse only (many have said they love the feeling the dick growing inside). and i think this is the case for most big dicks , at least according to big dick porn where guys have obviously difficulties to get fully hard. so from this part, the story is credible to me .


    because i have similar problems at the moment, i sincerily hope that the old recipe of just trying to be sensitive & understand her sweet spots, but also the ways you can hurt her, will get your sexual chemistry working - then the fun starts.

    ps: about petite girls having small pussies - this is really not the case: the size of body doesnt tell anything about how much girl can take inside.
     
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    Fade and Older Guy gave you some really good advice.
    Seaside makes a valid argument.

    *most of the folks here were trying to be helpful... you can just overlook the smartass remarks.*
     
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    ya never know how big they are til you get there.
     
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    You don't look that big in the photo, so maybe not quite the issue you think it will be or you need to take a better photo. She's only being with one guy, but was this in a relationship? If so she could have had more sex with him than someone who has casual sex with several different guys.

    I wouldn't concern yourself about size etc until you get close to the act, and at that point she could be happy to see you are a big boy, lol. If you're wanting to start a relationship with her, rather than just have sex with her, you need to be thinking about how you can spend time together and having fun. If all your thinking about is sex, then you'll not get very far, unless she just wants you for sex too.
     
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    Fancypants is correct. My delivery may not be very tactful but I was trying to be helpful :tongue:
     
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    He looks big. I have no idea what photo you're looking at. Is he 9" though? It's difficult to say, since there's no reference point in his photo and for some reason he hasn't posted any of the measured pics he implied he had.

    A properly measured 9" is staggeringly rare if its NBP and very rare if its BP, regardless of the BS claims by both men and women on this forum. A 40-page thread here, asking for measured pics of "only" 8 NBP, managed to produce only a solitary clear photo, among a heap of BS measuring techniques desperately trying to manufacture the appearance of an 8NBP penis. It's reasonable to assume that LPSG attracts a disproportionate number of men with big penises. The fact that even here, with a whole gallery of member's photos, a genuine measurement photo of an 8NBP penis is almost impossible to find, should tell you how rare a penis of this size actually is.

    As a consequence, a tiny number of women will have experienced a 9NBP penis; dismiss the mistaken claims (or downright fibs) by many of the female members of this forum. Therefore you would expect a great many women in the real world to have some kind of problem. After all, many men who claim to be 8 NBP have claimed to have difficulty (although some are undoubtedly fantasists).

    As another poster said, to an extent it depends on the woman. If you really are as big as you claim, OP, then I suspect the only advice anyone can give you is to be careful, or to use one of the length limiting devices. I have no idea where you would find one though.
     
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    Looks to me like an 8x5, a slightly larger than average. Try it slow and plenty of lube. Thank goodness you really look like 5" girth, any wider than that can present problems.. Good luck.
     
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    I wonder how many people on here will call 2 inches slightly .. :tongue:
     
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    Na, 7 at best.
     
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    Average is around 5.5 BP, so depending on how he's measuring he could be around 3" out.
     
  19. jelqer9

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    I'll take a picture of me measuring. My goodness people lol
     
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    I'm calling shenanigans on this. Such b.s.
     
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