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To you guys with these percentages, or 95/5 or 99/1... What exactly do you mean by 10% Gay or 5% or 1%...

Here is the short answer:

Anyone claiming to be 100% gay is pretty much being 100% honest since there is no incentive or advantage in our society to being identified as gay and there's plenty of discrimination. In other words, no reason to say you are gay if you are not. Identifying as gay still requires conviction and cojones.

BUT . . .

Anyone describing themselves as 100% straight or a fraction thereof is open to question, as being straight carries a great deal of prestige and approval in our society so there's plenty of incentive to classify yourself as straight even when you are not. In addition this is a cock site, if it were a pussy site I think a claim to 100% straight would carry a lot more weight.

You don't see gay guys flocking to a tit or pussy site, and viewing, talking about, discussing, commenting on the beauty and many attributes of female genitalia.

I'm sure there are plenty of straight guys here on LPSG, but 100% str8 is a tough sell and probably the minority.
 
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Read Kinsey's books on male and female sexuality. Very worthwhile reading for anyone who has a serious and not just prurient interest in the subject. (Not that there is anything wrong with prurient interest!)
 

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Mine means I am only gay with women who are mostly bi and are not serious lesbians. I want fun with girls and a relationship with men. If a woman wanted anything other than sex I could offer her nothing.

Wow, that's interesting. Just like the guys with 1 - 10%. I'd always presumed the lesbian side of women would be more inclined to a relationship. But I suppose I've just been guilty of stereotypical thinking. In fact, come to think of it I know a guy with a bisexual wife. She's had a couple of flings with women over the last year, but she's still shacked up with him. And he doesn't feel threatened by her flings. Envious maybe, but not threatened.

BTW, my 1% straightness is there because I won't deny the slight possibility of something happening one day, though it ain't yet. And because I'm not really an absolutist about anything.
 
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I really like lpsg's different percentages because they show people that there are not only two types of sexuality: 100% straight and 100% gay. There's plenty of gray in the middle.

I recently changed mine to 90% gay from 99% gay, because I realized that I do enjoy various straight porn and do get off to it sometimes, so I must be more than 1% straight. I have had sex with women as well, but I do not think I would anymore. Eh, never say never though.

Not to step in to the "controversy" on this post but I also do not see how any guy who spends much time on this site can really be 100% straight. But then - it is what the guy thinks and how he identifies that matters, not what I think he should identify as. Labels are all kind of pointless anyway.
 

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I would say that I prefer to make love with women 90% of the time, with men 5% of the time and with myself 5% of the time. Then that makes me 90% straight for women, 5% gay for guys, and 5% gay for myself. ;)
 

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90/10 is just the breakdown of what i've gone after over my sexually active life. if somebody held a gun to my head and said "you can only have sex with either girls or guys for the rest of your life" i'd pick guys. but i've fukd alot of pussy along the way too,and I'm like any str8 dude when i see a guy nailin a chick i wanna get in on that and my cock is ready to go. but i'm more likely to put real energy pursuing (hunt, chase, stalk whatever u wanna call it) dudes for sex that blows my mind and my dik.

Other times im just a dog humpin a couch, doesn't really matter if it's a female couch or a male couch, it's more of a need than a desire. I'll prolly get hammered for saying this but a big part of sex for me is the way i can get other people off , i get turned on by my perfomance. ya i know--recovering narcissist, but it's what makes me give so good.

final disclaimer:
no matter how many chicks i fuk and no matter how expert i am at pushing them over the edge sexually, i will NEVER EVER EVER understand them emotionally or be able to navigate the mental mine-field that they put around themselves for guys to figure out, and i would never feel as comfortable or complete hanging out with them as i do with guys, i just dont get them, and i don't need a mother surrogate to take care of me, the role alot of str8 guys seem to fall into. I identify with males.(sorry ladies but i got a "Y" chromosome and i can't help it)
 
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90/10 is just the breakdown of what i've gone after over my sexually active life. if somebody held a gun to my head and said "you can only have sex with either girls or guys for the rest of your life" i'd pick guys. but i've fukd alot of pussy along the way too,and I'm like any str8 dude when i see a guy nailin a chick i wanna get in on that and my cock is ready to go. but i'm more likely to put real energy pursuing (hunt, chase, stalk whatever u wanna call it) dudes for sex that blows my mind and my dik.

Other times im just a dog humpin a couch, doesn't really matter if it's a female couch or a male couch, it's more of a need than a desire. I'll prolly get hammered for saying this but a big part of sex for me is the way i can get other people off , i get turned on by my perfomance. ya i know--recovering narcissist, but it's what makes me give so good.


I for one, Respect your Honesty. Happy New Year, Bruce-e
 

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90/10 is just the breakdown of what i've gone after over my sexually active life. if somebody held a gun to my head and said "you can only have sex with either girls or guys for the rest of your life" i'd pick guys. but i've fukd alot of pussy along the way too,and I'm like any str8 dude when i see a guy nailin a chick i wanna get in on that and my cock is ready to go. but i'm more likely to put real energy pursuing (hunt, chase, stalk whatever u wanna call it) dudes for sex that blows my mind and my dik.

Other times im just a dog humpin a couch, doesn't really matter if it's a female couch or a male couch, it's more of a need than a desire. I'll prolly get hammered for saying this but a big part of sex for me is the way i can get other people off , i get turned on by my perfomance. ya i know--recovering narcissist, but it's what makes me give so good.

I didn't want to do the % thing in the first place but I did - because I wanted to be honest. Mainly hetero but admit I've got a couple things that attract me to guys too. Don't make me a bad person! I've never acted on them but haven't ruled out in the future so I'm just holding my options open.

My real question is? WHY DOES SOCIETY relentlessly want to know WHAT WE ARE (and have to quantify it!) when we don't even necessarily know ourselves? Why can't people just make themselves happy without having to be judged or categorized by everyone else? IMO - IT'S no ones business except the people involved, and if you're just into keeping stats? Find another job you busy-body:tongue:!

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My real question is? WHY DOES SOCIETY relentlessly want to know WHAT WE ARE (and have to quantify it!) when we don't even necessarily know ourselves? Why can't people just make themselves happy without having to be judged or categorized by everyone else? IMO - IT'S no ones business except the people involved, and if you're just into keeping stats? Find another job you busy-body:tongue:!

I empathize with your frustration, but I want to defend the sexual orientation "meter" (since I was the one who created it!). It's just a way to tell people more about who you are. Whether we want to believe it or not, our opinions and our lives are affected by our sexual orientation.

You're not required to declare your orientation. It's totally optional.
 

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You have a valid point, but I disagree. People can appreciate dicks much like they appreciate art. IT is called, being open minded. Some just look to compare and see how they rank.

Pecker said it best.

Well it is OK for women to appreciate and value the beauty of other women (down to parts) and not have that being seen as lesbian or bisexual behavior.

Women definitely have way more leverage in adoring and embracing representations of their physical form and sexuality, whereas for men, at least in North America, this is seen as a taboo.

For example, how would it look for straight men to watch a documentary called The Penis Monologues? People would assume that in order for a man to show interest in that, he must be gay. But women can do this and more.

Anytime a man embraces something related to his sexuality in a way that's non-violent or aggressive, it is considered homoerotic. So men don't have a lot of advantage and breathing room here to express without linear assumptions being made. Sometimes those assumptions will be correct, but not always.
 

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I take it to mean along the lines of:

[In terms of straightness]

100% - Men are scenary to him, they are to be talked to, to have friendships with, but never to have any sexual involvement with.

99% - Admits having found some men attractive, or forms opinions on how attractive other men are, but has no interest in sexual activity with them.

90% - Can find men attractive and is curious.

70% - would have sex with a man.

50% - No preference.

30% - would have sex with a woman, mainly interested in men.

10% - can find woman attractie and is curious.

1% - Admits finding some women attractive or forms opinions on how attractive women are.

0% - Women are scenary, they can be talked to but not copulated with.

Well said!
 

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90/10 is just the breakdown of what i've gone after over my sexually active life. if somebody held a gun to my head and said "you can only have sex with either girls or guys for the rest of your life" i'd pick guys. but i've fukd alot of pussy along the way too,and I'm like any str8 dude when i see a guy nailin a chick i wanna get in on that and my cock is ready to go. but i'm more likely to put real energy pursuing (hunt, chase, stalk whatever u wanna call it) dudes for sex that blows my mind and my dik.

Other times im just a dog humpin a couch, doesn't really matter if it's a female couch or a male couch, it's more of a need than a desire. I'll prolly get hammered for saying this but a big part of sex for me is the way i can get other people off , i get turned on by my perfomance. ya i know--recovering narcissist, but it's what makes me give so good.

final disclaimer:
no matter how many chicks i fuk and no matter how expert i am at pushing them over the edge sexually, i will NEVER EVER EVER understand them emotionally or be able to navigate the mental mine-field that they put around themselves for guys to figure out, and i would never feel as comfortable or complete hanging out with them as i do with guys, i just dont get them, and i don't need a mother surrogate to take care of me, the role alot of str8 guys seem to fall into. I identify with males.(sorry ladies but i got a "Y" chromosome and i can't help it)

THADJOCK, you said it PERFECT. U R A Stud!
 

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I wasn't sure about the % scale either. I set 10G / 90str8 but based on this thread discussion, 1G/99S more accurately describes my bi-curiosity about cock. Good hea...., aaaa,..... thread
 
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I understand your point, hunGreek, but I really do think there is a sub-group of the straight guys at LPSG who aren't here for the reasons you mentioned. Some are here just because they have a big cock; they want to talk with people who understand their issues, both good and bad; they may want to show off a little, especially to the women here; they may want to compare out of pure curiosity, or they may be here for the intellectual discussion and snappy repartee :rolleyes:. Strange as it may seem, some of us aren't here for the cock :eek:.


Agree. I'd consider myself 100% straight, though I don't really care if somebody was to share their opinion and justification of why I'm actually 95% or whatever. I think it has everything to do with your sexual desires.

I think every guy is curious how they compare to other guys and to the average size. There was a time I had only seen a couple that were way bigger than me, so it gave me the idea I was smaller than average and made me self conscious. As a straight guy, there's certain questions you can't really ask your friends. Once mine grew some more, I found this site to be a safe place to get some honest feedback on the look and size of mine, in relation to other guys. It helped boost my ego, made me get rid of that body image I had, made me build confidence and lose my self consciousness.

Also, a safe place to share fantasies and experiences. I'm only turned on by pictures of big penises if there's a female involved, the only thing that turns me on about a big one is thinking about the woman's perspective on it, and relate that to a female perspective on my own.

I'd say I was 0% Gay because I have never had any desire to touch or do anything remotely sexual with another guy. The only thing I would do would be to have a female or group of females comparing mine to another dude.