A Bad Thing?

[D_Abraham Slinkin]

Lately, I've begin to think that being well endowed is more of a hinderence than a blessing.

I'm not that hung, 8 x 6, there are much much bigger around - yet all I seem to get is negative reactions. I've never got a decent blow job in my life because it's hard to accommodate, and people moan that it hurts when fucking - to the extent that now I've realized, yeah it's decent for the lad banter of havin' a big one, but in reality, a big dick makes sex much harder. I really wish I was an inch or so smaller.

Anyone else on my page?

 

[B_Hornaplenty]

Lately, I've begin to think that being well endowed is more of a hindrance than a blessing.

Anyone else on my page?

No way. I'm blessed with 8 x 5.5 and it's been a major reason for getting and satisfying partners over many years, not to mention my pleasure when I use it alone.

You sound like you're well endowed with 8 x 6, but it's not exceptional...maybe you are just using it improperly. On first meeting, take some time introducing your pride and joy to your partner, spend some time with foreplay, then with the help of saliva or lube proceed where you want to put it. I don't know many people who resist taking an above average size cock. You have a treasure between your legs. Just work on your technique.

 

[MsThang]

I know a man who considers his size a curse and said that he also received negative remarks from women like, "you don't expect me to put that in my mouth." I am sure it must be hard to hear from a sexual partner. I have to be truthful that giving oral sex to a big cock intimidates me but I am willing to try if the guy is patient and just tells me what he likes. I like to give head but don't feel as confident with a well endowed man but I am excited at the thought of practicing. Be patient, you will find someone who appreciates you and your big cock.

 

[upone]

Aside from curiosity value (Some women want to try a fuck to see what it's like), I'd say it hasn't mattered to me.

 

[B_Jordan85]

oh PLEASE! a large guy's original intention are to here these words from a girl. he wants to shock her and its actually a turn on to here these comments.

 

[Miscer]

i wept reading your post, OP. tears of mutual understanding of your pain flowed freely. this anguish, this perpetual living NIGHTMARE of having a big cock has RUINED OUR LIVESS!!1!11!1

 

[Incocknito]

I agree with the OP.

See sometimes you might care about someone, or just want to fuck them really hard. But you find that you can't, for whatever reason (you are too big / she is too small).

It's frustrating and annoying and sometimes it can break up relationships.

Of course having said that, if you can find someone who's a good fit for you then you can have some amazing sex.

But sex isn't everything. Sometimes you want the beautiful girl, or the actress, or the musician. Then you discover you have actually cockblocked yourself.

 

[D_Sam Rockswell]

I agree with the OP and Incocknito.

When its just sex its great, but when it comes down to relationships it can get a little strange. You have to get really good at controlling your own body or things will go haywire.

Causing pain has been the biggest issue. I've all but thrown out the idea of getting mind blowing...er....blowjobs. (not that i'm at all big) But long story short if you find someone who loves it and you two find a way to deal with it then its way more than a plus.

 

[D_Cock_Hudson]

We should all be happy with the body and cock we have, and I'm sad to hear you are not. Hope you can find ways to overcome your unhappiness.

 

[Gecko4lif]

David and Goliath. Gotta love that sweet spot of upper average

 

[AdrianaOne]

No one likes a flagpole! :tongue: Lol, but in all seriousness you are not the first guy I've heard make this complaint. Just a blessing and a curse I guess.

 

[twoton]

No one likes a flagpole! :tongue: Lol, but in all seriousness you are not the first guy I've heard make this complaint. Just a blessing and a curse I guess.

A blessing and a curse. It's an ego stroke to hear 'you're the biggest,' etc. and it's fun to compare and play with. It's trouble when my wife says she's suited for an average to small guy and that I'm suited for a woman who likes 'em big. :frown1:

 

[thejoy2010]

compared to most of the pics i see on here my ex bf was normal sized (6in) and when i tried oral, it was difficult for me, but i kept trying because i wanted to please him, i eventually got really into it and he loved it practice makes perfect

 

[drabman]

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You sound like you're well endowed with 8 x 6, but it's not exceptional.

Give me a break. A true NBP 8 x 6 is very rare. Few porn stars have this size FFS.

 

[drabman]

I agree with the OP.

See sometimes you might care about someone, or just want to fuck them really hard. But you find that you can't, for whatever reason (you are too big / she is too small)....

...Sometimes you want the beautiful girl, or the actress, or the musician. Then you discover you have actually cockblocked yourself.

Never a truer word.

 

[dirkjesje]

Give me a break. A true NBP 8 x 6 is very rare. Few porn stars have this size FFS.

Very true.
And what I saw in his pics is close to mine - but below 7 x 6.

 

[mred0950]

oh PLEASE! a large guy's original intention are to here these words from a girl. he wants to shock her and its actually a turn on to here these comments.

I totally agree! I love to see the look on her face when she sees me for the first time.:tongue: But its no fun when sex is painful for both of us. To be honest I wish I was smaller some times.

 

[BlackIsKingSize]

Big or small what you've got is what you've got. And if you don't like it nobody else will either. So make peace with whatever size you have and remember that your dick belongs to you, not the other way around.

Guys both bigger and smaller than you get great blowjobs and sex so don't give up and think that it's not possible. You just have to keep looking. In my experience the biggest part of a really great bj is enthusiasm. If the person sucking you loves to suck they'll find a way to please you.

 

[TheRob]

I know a man who considers his size a curse and said that he also received negative remarks from women like, "you don't expect me to put that in my mouth." I am sure it must be hard to hear from a sexual partner. I have to be truthful that giving oral sex to a big cock intimidates me but I am willing to try if the guy is patient and just tells me what he likes. I like to give head but don't feel as confident with a well endowed man but I am excited at the thought of practicing. Be patient, you will find someone who appreciates you and your big cock.

I imagine you are quite popular
in answer to the initial question
sometimes being big is a curse

 

[dad4you]

Lately, I've begin to think that being well endowed is more of a hinderence than a blessing.

I'm not that hung, 8 x 6, there are much much bigger around - yet all I seem to get is negative reactions. I've never got a decent blow job in my life because it's hard to accommodate, and people moan that it hurts when fucking - to the extent that now I've realized, yeah it's decent for the lad banter of havin' a big one, but in reality, a big dick makes sex much harder. I really wish I was an inch or so smaller.

Anyone else on my page?

That size would be perfect for me to enjoy. If I ever found a mate with that I would stop looking.:biggrin1: