Well, I think this serves as a lesson for you and anyone else: just enjoy it, no need to think about labels when you are en joying it. Labels constraint. Even if he had sucked your dick, that will not change who you are, period. Maybe you do need to think about who you are, but this time leave labels aside. :wink:
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This seems like the height of erotic.
You are kind to let him insert you. It is playing in both their minds, as one of the most sexual moments in their lives, there to relive.
These men want their wives to be properly fucked, even if it's not always by them.
Yes, I didn't realize how much I would absolutely love/lust the threesome expereience until my first forays into it. I mean I'd seen it, read about it, surely masturbated to it from porn, but my first few awkward/erotic/clumsy/intense/confusing/real explorations actually helped it later stand out - beyond other experiences or experiences. In short, with the right people and chemistry, it can be absolutely amazing - And in my limited experiences, I've enjoyed being both the sharer of the girl and the lucky third, though most of my experiences (And certainly my lusts today), involve being that one who shares, helps, watches, guides, and some vice versa....Fuck, hard as hell remembering and fantasizing and glad you shared this experience to get this thread rolling.
It is quite the intense moment - to watch, touch, really absorb the moment of a lover...with another...or with two of you at once. IT certainly doesn't always work and isn't instant magic, but with the right line-up of the stars, I've found it to be so intense....Fuck, I could go on forever...love it.
It is quite the intense moment - to watch, touch, really absorb the moment of a lover...with another...or with two of you at once. IT certainly doesn't always work and isn't instant magic, but with the right line-up of the stars, I've found it to be so intense....Fuck, I could go on forever...love it.
I think his curiosity is the most normal thing in the world.
I know it must have surprised you, but it was an expression of loving curiosity.
The only thing I think about your participation is that it wasn't entirely voluntary...you could've called him on it, but it would have been a bit harsh.
I think you did the best thing possible...enjoyed her, and didn't spoil his fun.
You seem a good guy.
I would think nothing of it, since it was not of your making, but enjoy the pleasure that the threeway brought. If it opens up possibilities for you, that's not a bad thing.
Personally, I'm jealous. A threeway is the thing I have most enjoyed fantasizing about, which I am very unlikely to experience in this life.
That sounds erotic. I fantasize about it too and I haven't had such experience yet. I would certainly love to pleasure such couple with different arrangements/situations.
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You think so??
If it felt good at all, he did. If he was terrible at it, then he didn't. simple
Yep. I was hard while he stroked. I gave her couple of orgasms licking hers and was ready to put it in when she asked me to do so.
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I also got over it with my first couple when I was a teenager. The guy had brought me to his wife, she was totally beautiful and an amazing fuck. They were very nice to me. I let him stroke me, then put me inside her. A few sessions later, I let him suck me clean. It felt fine, and I relaxed about it. Since then, with dozens and dozens of couples, it happens fairly frequently. I think it is fairly easy to be bi-tolerant or friendly in these situations and it makes the encounter just that much better for all concerned.
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Ok so how many times this week have you been called a moron...well add one. He is in bed with another couple...Guess what all bets are off
Regarding the OP's post, this kind of underscores why it's important with non-spontaneous MFM's to lay out the ground rules before starting. Let them know what you're comfortable with and what you're not. Then there won't be any surprises once you've started.
Your reaction to being stroked by him was gracious. I think things happen for a reason...sometimes to teach us a lesson. Perhaps in this instance, you discovered that a hand is a hand and it doesn't really matter to whom it belongs. If it feels good, then it is good, whether it's a man or a woman.
Thanks for posting.
Your reaction to being stroked by him was gracious. I think things happen for a reason...sometimes to teach us a lesson. Perhaps in this instance, you discovered that a hand is a hand and it doesn't really matter to whom it belongs. If it feels good, then it is good, whether it's a man or a woman.
Thanks for posting.
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Come on man, if all of you are kinky for 3some you should have expected 'anything goes'. Especially if you don't know them.If I knew he wanted to try something like that before visiting me I would probably have denied. I adjusted to the situation making it satisfactory to each hoping that he didn't want to do anything further.
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I don't agree with ColonialBoy above, some ground rules might be helpful, but like most others here I applaud you for handling the situation with grace and maturity. Fortunately you can now feel more confident that you can manage the situation well if it "comes up" again.
Good luck with your future adventures and good job on your fitness and physique, I'm sure most couples will appreciate it. Happy new year!
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I would say it was necessary to be bi-tolerant, that a three-way with one pairing completely off the table would be like having an 8x1 (or whatever the dimensions are these days) down the middle of the bed.
