Hi there everyone,
I would just like to say before I begin that I am not a pedophile, and I have a genuine concern about a good friend of mine.
He's nearly 17, quite tall and black. We get on very well and stuff - he's straight and it's purely a good friendship; in fact we go as far to say that we're brothers, even if not by blood because we have got lots in common and have known each other a while.
I'm just a little concerned and in need of some honest advice because lately he's been telling me some very sexual stuff and yes, I know that people who feel they can trust (especially 2 young men) talk about this sort of thing. About a month ago he was kinda dying to tell me that he had 'got laid' and was really quite proud of himself for it. He has also quite frequently said how he's got a massive cock and this and that, we were playing battlefield 2 and he said 'the american army are like my cock, massive and powerful'.
I don't feel so comfortable about this at all and am not sure what to do... he is NOT a creep or anything, in fact he's one of the most genuine people I know. He doesn't always talk about it, and often we talk about PC games or our interests, music etc matey stuff. When he does mention the above, he instigates it. I feel a bit worried and have been too afraid to tell anyone in case people think I'm a pedophile, (and I cannot think of a more sick crime than that). I'm 22 and I only look at people 20+.
What should I do? I tell him 'you don't really need to brag about that now, I'm not your girlfriend mate!' Is it purely because he's worried about something and feels he can trust me enough to talk about that kind of thing? I don't know.
Anyone got any advice, or can relate to what I'm getting at? Would be most grateful, cheers.
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I would just like to say before I begin that I am not a pedophile, and I have a genuine concern about a good friend of mine.
He's nearly 17, quite tall and black. We get on very well and stuff - he's straight and it's purely a good friendship; in fact we go as far to say that we're brothers, even if not by blood because we have got lots in common and have known each other a while.
I'm just a little concerned and in need of some honest advice because lately he's been telling me some very sexual stuff and yes, I know that people who feel they can trust (especially 2 young men) talk about this sort of thing. About a month ago he was kinda dying to tell me that he had 'got laid' and was really quite proud of himself for it. He has also quite frequently said how he's got a massive cock and this and that, we were playing battlefield 2 and he said 'the american army are like my cock, massive and powerful'.
I don't feel so comfortable about this at all and am not sure what to do... he is NOT a creep or anything, in fact he's one of the most genuine people I know. He doesn't always talk about it, and often we talk about PC games or our interests, music etc matey stuff. When he does mention the above, he instigates it. I feel a bit worried and have been too afraid to tell anyone in case people think I'm a pedophile, (and I cannot think of a more sick crime than that). I'm 22 and I only look at people 20+.
What should I do? I tell him 'you don't really need to brag about that now, I'm not your girlfriend mate!' Is it purely because he's worried about something and feels he can trust me enough to talk about that kind of thing? I don't know.
Anyone got any advice, or can relate to what I'm getting at? Would be most grateful, cheers.
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