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Hi guys, Im Jay, 33.
Im just writing here to actually ask if anyone have the same problem with me and maybe they could share their experiences of facing the same or almost same problems.
Im right at 33 yrs old,single,no sexual partners and I never had a special one called BF before. And the last time I had actual sex (penetrative one) was like 7 yrs ago. And I kinda stopped from there. I dont know why. I started to realize Im SEXUALLY into men during my study period when I was 19 to 23.
But things getting cold down there since then,I dont know why but I just realized that Im hardly atracted to anyone since a few yrs back. I did asked my friends about this problem and he said since I have moved from different city means I gotta lower my expectations. I did try to date a few guys around but when it comes to getting intimate,I just stopped there,the passion is no longer with me. I dont know why but this keeps happened until a point of where I said to myself am I too picky? I dont think so since Im just an average guy with nothing interesting so Im not in the place to be one.
I did try to have sex,a few times, but end up with just kissing and cuddles coz I cant get hard. Sometimes a guy turn me on but as we get to the bed that thing down there wont get up or if its get hard its gonna take a long time lol. But in the morning I always get a hard on and my Mr P had no problem getting erected when I saw photos or videos of attractive people on Twitters or Here.
And there's a point where I hired numbers of masseurs and moneyboys that I attracted. And its just the same. Im attracted looking at them,but as things getting sexual,I will turned off. Yes Im kinda nervous everytime I get kissed or lick. But I hate the smell of dried saliva aftermath. That thing turned me off. But I love getting oral or giving one.
What should I do? Can a person be asexual after some period of their life? Or is it just psychological stress sex related or else?
I appreciate any kind of feedbacks from my fellow LPSG members here. And TQ
Im just writing here to actually ask if anyone have the same problem with me and maybe they could share their experiences of facing the same or almost same problems.
Im right at 33 yrs old,single,no sexual partners and I never had a special one called BF before. And the last time I had actual sex (penetrative one) was like 7 yrs ago. And I kinda stopped from there. I dont know why. I started to realize Im SEXUALLY into men during my study period when I was 19 to 23.
But things getting cold down there since then,I dont know why but I just realized that Im hardly atracted to anyone since a few yrs back. I did asked my friends about this problem and he said since I have moved from different city means I gotta lower my expectations. I did try to date a few guys around but when it comes to getting intimate,I just stopped there,the passion is no longer with me. I dont know why but this keeps happened until a point of where I said to myself am I too picky? I dont think so since Im just an average guy with nothing interesting so Im not in the place to be one.
I did try to have sex,a few times, but end up with just kissing and cuddles coz I cant get hard. Sometimes a guy turn me on but as we get to the bed that thing down there wont get up or if its get hard its gonna take a long time lol. But in the morning I always get a hard on and my Mr P had no problem getting erected when I saw photos or videos of attractive people on Twitters or Here.
And there's a point where I hired numbers of masseurs and moneyboys that I attracted. And its just the same. Im attracted looking at them,but as things getting sexual,I will turned off. Yes Im kinda nervous everytime I get kissed or lick. But I hate the smell of dried saliva aftermath. That thing turned me off. But I love getting oral or giving one.
What should I do? Can a person be asexual after some period of their life? Or is it just psychological stress sex related or else?
I appreciate any kind of feedbacks from my fellow LPSG members here. And TQ