1) How common is nerves on the 1st time. Just that we've fooled a lot and tonight we were actually going to do the deed (we are ex's and now....well confuzzled) but I lost it. Thing is i used to be really bad, I even hated poeple touching my cock, which would cause me to lose it. Iam sure I explained this way back when we were actually going out, but obviously forgotten over the months. 2)Again a common question: How common is it for a guy not to cum by someone else? Just again he's said that he's never came with someone else pleasuring him. Male and female. I have read about the problem where poeple get so used to masturbating sexual experiences with somene else does nothing for them....which I may also have a bit of. Thanks for any help or words of advice.