Big_John: Hi, I'm new to the forum, and was wondering if anyone could help me out. I'm a freshman in college, a virgin, and I measure about 8"x6 or 7" (I don't have a ruler in school; all I can do is use a belt and a piece of paper; it's kind of funny) when erect. Not the biggest around here, but I figure that should be more than enough to please her and maybe attract some extra attention, without really ever being a problem. Anyway, my problem I suppose is this: a few of my friends have come to the conclusion that I'm "sexually repressed", and need to get laid. I agree with them, and I want to, but for some reason I can't make myself "go out and get it". I keep sabotaging myself, I guess. I never really had a girlfriend in school; I've always been smart and withdrawn, so I sort of thought I was "above that", and wasn't really interested in girls, if that makes any sense. By the time I was interested in them, I was so far behind everyone else in that department that I was just discouraged further. To be honest, I've never even kissed a girl. Not to be cocky (pun intended), but I know I should be confident; I'm smart, funny, sensitive, pretty well-hung, and I'm told I'm cute. I don't really know what it is, but I guess I'm just overly shy. I know most guys don't care about this, but I kind of want my first time to be with someone I at least care about, and not some random drunk chick. Some of my friends are in frats, so I go to parties pretty often, and I'm sure I could get some if I really wanted to, but usually I just end up drinking as much as I can and then just going home. Now, I kind of have this thing for a friend of a friend (let's call her "Jennifer", if you want), so I don't know if I should just try to push things along with her. The mutual friend ("Cassandra", I suppose) told me that Jen seems to like me and talks about me whenever she's drunk, but this was a couple month ago, I've kept talking to her but nothing's really come of it so far, so I'm not sure if I should just give up on her. Both of them go to the highschool I went to, while I live in college about 30-40 minutes away. Oh, and Cassandra and another of her friends were chilling out in my dormroom, when she decided to go through my wallet, and found a magnum condom, which they made a pretty big deal about. I figure it can't be a bad thing that they know, but I'm not really relying on word getting out. Sorry to just unload all my problems like this, but I figure everyone seems to be pretty open around here, so maybe someone could give me some advice, or something. By the way, does anyone know how big you should be to wear the new Magnum XL?