A day in the life: a comparison

[liquiss]

My tiny dick deserves only ridicule.

Why have you spent ten years and 4,200 posts on a site devote to large dicks if your packing nodda? Self depreciate much?

 

[Standard Deviant]

I think Smalls are heroes in some ways. Assuming they lead such unfulfilling lives as you describe, the fact that they can stil be productive members of society (even if their “members” aren’t) is a testament to the strength of the human spirit.

It's so funny to hear this kind of assumption now compared to what was the norm when I was a kid a half century ago. It was taken for granted, it was THE prevailing dominant social myth, that "size doesn't matter." Like, AT ALL. To those to whom it DID matter, we were thought of as sickos and losers and sluts, etc.
Also, if your levels of testosterone are that low that your dick and balls are small, you might not frankly give a shit about who's big and who's not. When I had surgery a few years ago and my sex drive disappeared for at least a month until I recovered enough, my mind followed my body and said, "who cares about that stuff." Same happens as you get older and your junk shrinks. As your hormones diminish, and your cock size retracts somewhat, you really do not care. Big deal. Look at Donald Trump, he doesn't let it bother him at all.

 

[Standard Deviant]

Recently at a nude beach open grill a guy waved with a long and thick cucumber and called out to some 15 people around: what a woman's dream!
Instantly one woman answered to the crowd that at least for her this was way too big and some other ladies nodded agreeingly.

It was great fun to imagine that ALL women ALWAYS preferred the BIGGEST penis they could find, when I was younger (in my early 20s) and I was overcoming the fear that this was indeed the case. Previous to enjoying it, I was tormented by the idea. When I finally resigned myself to believing that it was some kind of universal Truth that could not be denied (thanks to a size queen ex GF who had come back a year after dumping me when I was 21, said she was still in love with me, wanted to be together again intimately, spent 3 days touching and caressing and necking and petting but then when we finally went to bed and I got naked and got a 75% erection she sat up, put her clothes back on and exclaimed with utter disappointment, "You USED to be so HUGE!!" and then later told me about her BF in the interim, how huge he was, how she had begged him for it and loved the challenge of deep throating it... implying she had been "spoiled" by having had a huge one and could never go back to my size) it somehow relieved me of all the tension of not feeling certain of where I stood... Kind of a cuckolding thing but I never heard of cuckolding til at least 20 years later.

Frankly, the reality of discovering thanks to the internet and anonymity here and detailed expressions of preferences by various women (or should we really be all doubting that "women" who write that they prefer less huge cocks to medium sized ones really aren't women at all, but men hoping to shoot down the superiority of super-dick size?) has been a major fantasy deflator for me. If I had known so many women really preferred a slightly larger than average penis like mine, if I had known it back when I was in my late teens and early 20s, I would have been a whole different person! Probably quite an egotist. But it also might have helped me never get fat and out of shape because I would have had a much healthier self-image and not felt like my body was hopelessly less than maximally attractive.

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

It easy to say to just play the cards you are dealt when you are given an upper hand and have no idea what it is like to be in the other side. Not hating on you, glad to know a fellow human being has everything just right. Unfortunately it is not simething that those on the other side will ever have or experience no matter what we do how much we try or work. My life would have different too if I would have been born lucky and have those uncontrolable things handed to me too woth no effort or merit whatsoever.

Kim never said he had the upper hand in life. He did say he had ups and downs and bumps along the way but through hard work and many different opportunities was living life as just right .

I never stated that he said that he has an upper hand but the reality of the matter is that he does. The ups and downs of life we all struggle with and we have certain control to change it. Those born blessed with big genitalia did so with no work effort or merit on the other hand for those on the other side no matter how hard how much effort perseverance or work Will ever be able to change that aspect which Is what gives the upper hand

What upper hand does a big penis confer? What EXACTLY do I get by being more hung? What? Nobody knows my size. Nobody cares anyway, which is fine. Do you think the men who hired me for jobs gave a rat's ass, tried to determine my size before a hiring decision was made? How about the women? And if any cared, why? What's it got to do with how I diagnosed an engine problem, wrote COBOL programs, or renovated a kitchen? Dick size only matters if I go into porn, and even then it's still far more important that I get hard and stay hard in a movie set.

I'm a grower...no discernible bulge in my pants, and not one to attempt to create one. Whether my dick is 2 inches or 8 was nobody's business. And it's extremely insulting that anyone would imply that any success in my life was due in any part to my penis...especially when nobody in a position of influence knew.

You and wally have an obsession with penis size....even size queens have a more realistic standpoint on it. The fact that you and he are so fixated on size that you allow it to influence any other aspect of life, and that you project these beliefs on others, does not make any of it fact or reality.

So, back to the matter at hand. Explain WHAT my upper hand was. What exactly did my penis size do for me. If you're so certain that I, someone you don't know at all, had an upper hand, you should be able to clearly define and explain this.

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

lol

Wasting my life? LOL

I have a college degree, lived in multiple countries, speak two languages, slept with some beautiful women, have an amazing art collection, a steady good paying job and I've done all this in spite of having a micropenis. You know the best part of my life? I get to improve the lives of millions by spreading the good word about penis size.

Your problem is that you don't realize how easy you've had it thanks to that massive piece of meat between your legs.You don't appreciate all the advantages it has given you and doors it has opened. Buddy, if I had your dick I would be the President right now. I would be unstoppable. My posts remind you that you've squandered your gift. You've wasted the most precious thing a man can have and it just eats you up inside. I pity you.

I wrote two or three times that I'm happy. You wrote down an inventory, and never once mentioned your emotional state. You have repeatedly and for years expressed your self-loathing. I am quite happy with myself...I view my body and self as a whole being, not a support mechanism for genitalia.

But most telling is that if your list of stuff and accomplishments make you happy, and my life makes me happy, you've been hoisted by your own petard once again. My penis is big, yours is supposedly small, and we both have good lives. It's disingenuous to claim one is because of, and the other is in spite of...penis size. You fail, again, as always.

But the bottom line is that I'm happy. All that matters.

 

[liquiss]

I wrote two or three times that I'm happy. You wrote down an inventory, and never once mentioned your emotional state. You have repeatedly and for years expressed your self-loathing. I am quite happy with myself...I view my body and self as a whole being, not a support mechanism for genitalia.

But most telling is that if your list of stuff and accomplishments make you happy, and my life makes me happy, you've been hoisted by your own petard once again. My penis is big, yours is supposedly small, and we both have good lives. It's disingenuous to claim one is because of, and the other is in spite of...penis size. You fail, again, as always.

But the bottom line is that I'm happy. All that matters.

I would argue it’s pretty telling that his list of conquests includes “slept with beautiful women” instead of “had very meaningful relationships”. I suppose it’s difficult to have meaningful relationships when you’re obsessed with the ill conceived notion that somehow day to day life as a man is directed and controlled by the size of your dick.

 

[wallyj84]

I wrote two or three times that I'm happy. You wrote down an inventory, and never once mentioned your emotional state. You have repeatedly and for years expressed your self-loathing. I am quite happy with myself...I view my body and self as a whole being, not a support mechanism for genitalia.

But most telling is that if your list of stuff and accomplishments make you happy, and my life makes me happy, you've been hoisted by your own petard once again. My penis is big, yours is supposedly small, and we both have good lives. It's disingenuous to claim one is because of, and the other is in spite of...penis size. You fail, again, as always.

But the bottom line is that I'm happy. All that matters.

You're happy because you have a big dick.

Nuff said.

I would argue it’s pretty telling that his list of conquests includes “slept with beautiful women” instead of “had very meaningful relationships”. I suppose it’s difficult to have meaningful relationships when you’re obsessed with the ill conceived notion that somehow day to day life as a man is directed and controlled by the size of your dick.

It is impossible to have meaningful relationships if you are a Small. A small penis limits the intimacy you can have with a partner and without intimacy, you can never have a deep relationship.

 

[wallyj84]

I wrote two or three times that I'm happy. You wrote down an inventory, and never once mentioned your emotional state. You have repeatedly and for years expressed your self-loathing. I am quite happy with myself...I view my body and self as a whole being, not a support mechanism for genitalia.

But most telling is that if your list of stuff and accomplishments make you happy, and my life makes me happy, you've been hoisted by your own petard once again. My penis is big, yours is supposedly small, and we both have good lives. It's disingenuous to claim one is because of, and the other is in spite of...penis size. You fail, again, as always.

But the bottom line is that I'm happy. All that matters.

One more thing.

You have the greatest thing in the world between your legs, but haven't used it for anything. You might be happy, but you wasted your gift.

 

[deleted1138933]

What upper hand does a big penis confer? What EXACTLY do I get by being more hung? What? Nobody knows my size. Nobody cares anyway, which is fine. Do you think the men who hired me for jobs gave a rat's ass, tried to determine my size before a hiring decision was made? How about the women? And if any cared, why? What's it got to do with how I diagnosed an engine problem, wrote COBOL programs, or renovated a kitchen? Dick size only matters if I go into porn, and even then it's still far more important that I get hard and stay hard in a movie set.

I'm a grower...no discernible bulge in my pants, and not one to attempt to create one. Whether my dick is 2 inches or 8 was nobody's business. And it's extremely insulting that anyone would imply that any success in my life was due in any part to my penis...especially when nobody in a position of influence knew.

You and wally have an obsession with penis size....even size queens have a more realistic standpoint on it. The fact that you and he are so fixated on size that you allow it to influence any other aspect of life, and that you project these beliefs on others, does not make any of it fact or reality.

So, back to the matter at hand. Explain WHAT my upper hand was. What exactly did my penis size do for me. If you're so certain that I, someone you don't know at all, had an upper hand, you should be able to clearly define and explain this.

Anybody can do all that. I too have accomplished many academic, carreer, social, etc. endeavors. Thats neithrr here nor there. The upper hand comes that somebody born with a big dick has the potential of having it all, and being perceived as ideally having the whole package by women and not lacking anything. The upper hand cimes in knowing you can confidently approach women and know thet you, your manhood, masculinity and ability to have enofh to satisfy a woman will never be questioned, rejected, mocked, doubted, etc and that you will never be rejecyed because of it. The upper hand cimes in that women will desire YOU, not your assets, bank, accounts, or any other benefit, that needs to compensate for any short comings.

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

You're happy because you have a big dick.

Nuff said.



It is impossible to have meaningful relationships if you are a Small. A small penis limits the intimacy you can have with a partner and without intimacy, you can never have a deep relationship.

Speaking for me now. You're a nervy fuckwad, arentcha?

I know plenty of guys with small dicks who have great releationships. But you'll make up some more shit about how it's in spite of their dicks, or a lie, or some other irrational shit, and then say you're just stating facts and just here to help the small guys. Your schtick is old and worn.

I'd say I'm sorry you're unhappy and have no meaningful relationship, but since you prefer to wallow in a ridiculous notion, I don't care. I doubt everything you write about yourself, because your words are irrational, so it's impossible to invest in you. If you're honest, you're pathetic because you have wasted your life (yes, you have) by having no meaningful relationships. If you're being satirical, it's old and tired and has no plausibility...too "all and nothing". And insulting yourself and others does nothing to help them, so forget that bullshit line you push so often.

 

[wallyj84]

Speaking for me now. You're a nervy fuckwad, arentcha?

I know plenty of guys with small dicks who have great releationships. But you'll make up some more shit about how it's in spite of their dicks, or a lie, or some other irrational shit, and then say you're just stating facts and just here to help the small guys. Your schtick is old and worn.

I'd say I'm sorry you're unhappy and have no meaningful relationship, but since you prefer to wallow in a ridiculous notion, I don't care. I doubt everything you write about yourself, because your words are irrational, so it's impossible to invest in you. If you're honest, you're pathetic because you have wasted your life (yes, you have) by having no meaningful relationships. If you're being satirical, it's old and tired and has no plausibility...too "all and nothing". And insulting yourself and others does nothing to help them, so forget that bullshit line you push so often.

I have meaningful relationships. Just not romantic ones.

The truth never gets old. So just continue to hate. I'm going to keep on spreading the good word. The world is waking up to the truth and eventually everyone will think like me.

 

[deleted1138933]

Another @wallyj84 woe-is-me-my-penis-is-small and as a result, my life is shit thread.

News flash: Your life is shit because of YOU. Not your dick. YOU. It's in your head. Not mine. Not anyone else's. Yours. Cuz when you totally fixate on what you consider to be a perceived flaw, it can fuck

@HarryPalmas: What is luck really? There is very little in my life that I can contribute to luck. Luck didn't get me through school. Luck didn't get me my first or second or third jobs. I did it. Through hard work and determination. My physical characteristics are genetic. No luck involved. Genetics.

Lucky is all and anything that was dealt to you by nature, god, destiny, whatever you want to call it that gives you advantage without work, merit, or effortt. Yes, you and I and many others accomplished similar goals with effort work and determination. That is neither here nor there. Its got nothing to do with all the advantages and upper hand of being birn lucky and being well endiwed.

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

It is impossible to have meaningful relationships if you are a Small.

I have meaningful relationships. Just not romantic ones.

Make up your mind. You either do or do not. Or are not a "Small".

Take some time to consider your next lie.

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

The truth never gets old. So just continue to hate. I'm going to keep on spreading the good word. The world is waking up to the truth and eventually everyone will think like me.

Hate? What? Oh. Speaking for me again.

I never said I hated you or for that matter, anyone. Oh, is it the insults? That's just the truth. It never gets old.

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

One more thing.

You have the greatest thing in the world between your legs, but haven't used it for anything. You might be happy, but you wasted your gift.

Again speaking for me. Wasted my cock? Hardly.
I've used it for sex. With women I love, or was in lust with. I've used it to create my two amazing daughters. It does its job, but like EVERYTHING, it has its downsides. It's just a penis. Get the fuck over it and your homoerotic bullshit.

You have BDD. You think the world revolves around penises because you hate yours. You have a huge ego, crave attention, and think you could "be unstoppable" if only you had a big dick. You aren't stopped because your dick might not be huge. You're stopped by your emotional disorders...self-loathing, dysmorphia, and most of all, narcissistic personality. You have no meaningful relationships because people see what a hot mess you are, and you can't be reasonable about anything. You would be a waste of a big dick, because you're a waste of ANY dick. And you'll never see it, never admit it even if if you did.

Troll on, asshole.

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

Lucky is all and anything that was dealt to you by nature, god, destiny, whatever you want to call it that gives you advantage without work, merit, or effortt. Yes, you and I and many others accomplished similar goals with effort work and determination. That is neither here nor there. Its got nothing to do with all the advantages and upper hand of being birn lucky and being well endiwed.

You still haven't explained what "upper hand" being endowed gives me.

 

[wallyj84]

Make up your mind. You either do or do not. Or are not a "Small".

Take some time to consider your next lie.

I obviously meant romantic relationships. You are such a nit picker.

 

[deleted1138933]

You still haven't explained what "upper hand" being endowed gives me.

The upper hand cimes in knowing you can confidently approach women and know thet you, your manhood, masculinity and ability to have enofh to satisfy a woman will never be questioned, rejected, mocked, doubted, etc and that you will never be rejecyed because of it. The upper hand cimes in that women will desire YOU, not your assets, bank, accounts, or any other benefit, that needs to compensate for any short comings. The upper hand in that women desire and idealize you for being you without having to do anything.

 

[328982]

but then when we finally went to bed and I got naked and got a 75% erection she sat up, put her clothes back on and exclaimed with utter disappointment, "You USED to be so HUGE!!" and then later told me about her BF in the interim, how huge he was, how she had begged him for it and loved the challenge of deep throating it...

Lol. I know someone like that. Boyfriends all start as King Dong and end as Princess Tinymeat.

 

[328982]

You're happy because you have a big dick.
.

Don't lie. It's a perfectly average dick and that's just fine.