I just found out I will be going to Toledo Ohio to help care for a dying friend I will be gone for as little as a few days or as many as a few week. I am excited to go but sad at the same time I am blessed that they asked me. it is my aunts ex husband and his lover they have been together as long as i can remember. I have fond memories of spending time with them and even going trick or treating with them. they are both very open and I am really looking forward to this even though I know the outcome. the one that is dying shares my name he is Chuck and i am Charles and his lover is Carl. Chuck is the one dying it is just a matter of time. so i have to pack and get ready to go.