a female friend of mine

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  1. B_aussie8in

    B_aussie8in New Member

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    has a boyfriend, he isnt a very good boyfriend to her kinda controlling etcetra. they dont live together but been together like 4 years. She has lately been inviting me over just us 2 too watch a movie. does this mean she wants to fuck?
     
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    maybe, but it could lead to there. but since she had a boyfriend, i'd stay away on any circumstance which is most likely end you and her having sex.
     
  3. Principessa

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    No, it most likely means she is lonely because her bf is a butt head.
     
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    it's possible it means she wants to break up with her bf but doesn't want to be single so is lining you up to take his place.

    Alot of pathetic women (and men) won't end one relationship before they're sure there's another to go to.
     
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    what she said. if you like her then, visit her. see what pops up:redface:
     
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    Did she ask you to bring popcorn and condoms? ;)

    Maybe she just wants her bf to feel jealous... I wouldn't put my self in the middle of that...
     
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    o_0 maybe she just wants to hang out....

    does she have many other friends? do you share the same interest in movies that her or her other friends don't like? ...

    she just might feel comfortable with you, since her BF is a dick, and doens't want to deal him.

    Don't jump right to the conclusion of sex.
     
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    I have never understood that! I thought it was stupid in the 7th grade and it's still stupid today. :irked: How do you learn to love yourself, if you are never by yourself? :confused:
     
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    if it was me then it would mean she wanted to watch a movie with you.
     
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    Perhaps she just likes to watch movies...
     
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    Yep. She's getting cock from him and friendship from you.

    And she'll never listen to you tell him what a jerk she is. Or she'll listen and say "I know" and do nothing about it.

    As I've said before, this chick's 2nd husband will be a lucky guy. Because then she'll appreciate a good guy like you and him (the future 2nd husband). But she needs to make a mistake first. Because she apparently isn't smart enough to realize this now.
     
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    Don't read too much into it. Take it at face value, she wants you to watch a movie with her. However, if you like her and haven't told her, you should really, really soon as it will be prolongingly painful if you do not. The result is either she'll feel the same way (awesome!) or she'll want to just be friends (really sucks--and I'd recommend cutting it off at that point). It sucks having to push it like that, but a one-sided relationship is an even uglier thing.
     
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