Bryan_Lyte2
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SomeGuyOverThere said:My personal opinion (as a neutral party who, like you, receives all the gossip because everyone trusts me) is to stay out of it.
Let it reach it's natural conclusion (Most likely: Shit hits the fan) and be there to pick up the pieces.
The problem with trying to mend the situation is that you are very likely to make the shit hit the fan prematurely, and then there will be quite a bit of blame heading your way (quite probably from Bill).
So, if you step in, and make the shit hit the fan, part of it becomes your fault, if you stay out of it and let the shit hit the fan, none of it is your fault.
Either way, the shit will probably hit, so chose now: Caked in shit or Shit Free?
I've been in this situation with my naive friends a few times before. In fact right now. No matter what you say he's going to do what he wants. Give him warning. When It falls apart, and it will, he will listen to your advice more carefully. If he's a really good friend he'll hate you when you tell him until he finds out himself.
There is another way out also. Let him find out by pointing him in the right direction and letting things happen on their own. If she has slept with someone else in the group have him ask that guy what he thinks of her. After that enjoy the fireworks.
Like it's already been said. YOU CAN'T WIN.
It's not your fault. It's not like you could have stopped him from falling for her.