a friend of mine

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  1. showstoppa

    showstoppa New Member

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    now i'm sure that plenty of posts like this are probably up somewhere on this site
    but i want a real answer to this
    this is the question

    i have a really hot guy friend whose pants i want to get into
    and i'm pretty sure he's straight but would love to know if he's curious
    i just don't know how to approach him and get him to reciprocate and give me a chance
    because i'm afraid that it might sacrifice our friendship
    theres always the
    play strip poker, or go to the showers in the gym solution
    but really AS A FRIEND, what could i do besides all that "just get naked" stuff
    what could i do to comfort him into wanting to play around with me
    what could i say, what could i show with body language
    what signs from him can i look for that kind of stuff
    cuz i've been wanting him really bad now to the point where i almost can't take it when i look at him i just can't stop staring

    please help and give me genuine answers
    thanks so much
     
  2. crescendo69

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    53 here, and STILL don't know. Maybe some subtle hints..
     
  3. B_Think_Kink

    B_Think_Kink New Member

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    Get drunk with him, and play it off in a drunken manner... works all the time for me. I was high with my gay best friend when we had sex... yes gay boy sex with a girl... intoxicants are always good. But I will warn you.... I lost my best friend (the gay one) who I had been friends with for 6 years, it might have not been from that directly, but over time it stopped, and we hate each other now... be careful.
     
  4. smoothrnb

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    I would not do anything if you want any kind of relationship with him in the future. If he is curious, he will tell you, and whatever happens sexually will be a mutual decision. Nothing good comes about through deceit or trickery.
     
  5. Altairion

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    I agree with everyone else on this one. You can't really make someone want to do something with you. Maybe just tease him a little bit on things, and see what his comfort level is. However, he has to be the one to make the first move if anything would ever happen. Otherwise there could be a problem later on if he regrets what happened...then he'll look for someone to blame, and that would definitely be you (in his mind).
     
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    Altairion;

    I landin Lincoln on the 24 of April. U wnat to meet somewhere before I go on to Manhattn. for my Reunion at K-State. We coul get to know each other. Maybe ur not interested!!
     
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