Okay this past weekend I had a LPSG moment...I had a party this past weekend and got really trashed so my friend told me to leave car and he would take me home...He lived pretty far away for him so I said he could stay the night and then take me to my car...So we get to my room and watch videos and talk...As I am really tired and falling asleep he started sounding a little depressed over his job that he lost and said he kind of fills like an outcast among my over friends...So being the supportive friend I try to confont him...Somewhere throughout the conversation he confesses that he and a guy at his last job fooled around one night when they were drunk and the guy told some people at his job so he was mortified (Both of these guys are supposedly straight)...I admitted to him that I had been w/a few guys (one night stands) in the past myself and it made him feel better about himself...This is the first friend that I have ever told that so it was a big step for me...
Then he goes on to say when he was in college that he and some of his frat buddies use to have jack off sessions and wanted to know if I had any porn and was interested (apparently that is what he and his co-worker had)...Okay my mind flashed to LPSG.ORG from reading some of the stories and I said what the hell why not...I put the porn and we stripped and hit my bed...Okay it was cool but felt a little weird to be in a bed w/a male friend talking about things...I think I always knew my friend kind of liked me but didn't know for sure and that is why I let the conversation led to this...I let him know since I knew he liked me now that I do like guys but not having sex w/them which I think made him a little nervous because other that a couple of back rubs and running fingers through his hair that was the extent of our contact...I told him that I am more attracted to women in an emotional way and having sex w/them than men...
I guess the problem is that I wasn't into this at all and realized maybe I am not into guys as much as I thought...I mean the guy is attractive and good body so you would think I would have had some sexual feelings but there were none...He was like I am so happy to have someone to talk to about his bi-sexual feelings...I felt that this could be cool to have someone who really knows me and can be very open with...The issue is that by realizing I might not be into guys as much as him because all he wanted to know as what other straight guys in our group have I hooked with before and letting me know he thought was hot and who he would hook up with...I told him none and he says that I just don'tI was very turned off by that since I really never think about my friends who I want to hook up with...Then he goes on to ask me stuff about my bestfriend and I like if we ever fooled around and what kind of equipment he had because he hooks up tons of women...So since he thought I was avoiding talking about people he knew I stupidly told him that other than being in bed nude together and maybe a curious touch or two - nothing ever went on before and that we are just extremely close and he is pretty sexually open w/just me and other than that - he is straight...
Okay my best friend extremely good looking and really vain and into his looks and body so I could definitely see why he was asking hoping that he was bi-sexual too...He is one of those people that women and men find very attractive and doesn't have a problem w/guys hitting on him...But I found myself kind of annoyed w/this guy but I couldn't let him know because I promised this guy that I would not tell anyone and always would be there for him since he felt like an outcast...But the next day when my best friend and I went to lunch my best was telling me that this guy was calling him all morning wanting to hangout and I was like I wonder why he called you and not me (my bestfriend knows him through me but this guy never called him before)...He thought it was a little weird and I told him that the guy was going through some emotional stuff and just wanted some friends so I said invite him to lunch if he wanted to...I almost wanted to tell my best friend what happened the other night but I promised that other guy I wouldn't plus I have never even told my best friend my slight interest in guys but I know he knows just because of our interactions...My best friend love each other and joke that if we were going to be gay - it would only be for each other since I am the only guy he is this comfortable with and knows everything about him...
Okay I don't know what to do now because I find that me and this guy have nothing in common...And I really don't like hanging out w/him and having conversations w/him about who he thinks is hot and which friends I think are good in bed...I felt like I was talking to a woman and this guy is pretty masculine...He said he goes to gay clubs and I am not into them...I guess I am more on the straight side than I thought...And I don't like him calling my best friend to try to hang out because I know where his mind is going and I know my best friend will shatter those thoughts if he makes a move on him...So I am wondering what should I do about this w/o breaking his spirit and sending him more into depression about his situation because I really feel bad for this guy...I mean the guy came over the next night wanting to talk and spent the night and nothing happened we never touched or anything but just slight in the same bed clothed and I normally sleep in the nude but I didn't want to give him any ideas...Has anyone encountered anything like this...
Then he goes on to say when he was in college that he and some of his frat buddies use to have jack off sessions and wanted to know if I had any porn and was interested (apparently that is what he and his co-worker had)...Okay my mind flashed to LPSG.ORG from reading some of the stories and I said what the hell why not...I put the porn and we stripped and hit my bed...Okay it was cool but felt a little weird to be in a bed w/a male friend talking about things...I think I always knew my friend kind of liked me but didn't know for sure and that is why I let the conversation led to this...I let him know since I knew he liked me now that I do like guys but not having sex w/them which I think made him a little nervous because other that a couple of back rubs and running fingers through his hair that was the extent of our contact...I told him that I am more attracted to women in an emotional way and having sex w/them than men...
I guess the problem is that I wasn't into this at all and realized maybe I am not into guys as much as I thought...I mean the guy is attractive and good body so you would think I would have had some sexual feelings but there were none...He was like I am so happy to have someone to talk to about his bi-sexual feelings...I felt that this could be cool to have someone who really knows me and can be very open with...The issue is that by realizing I might not be into guys as much as him because all he wanted to know as what other straight guys in our group have I hooked with before and letting me know he thought was hot and who he would hook up with...I told him none and he says that I just don'tI was very turned off by that since I really never think about my friends who I want to hook up with...Then he goes on to ask me stuff about my bestfriend and I like if we ever fooled around and what kind of equipment he had because he hooks up tons of women...So since he thought I was avoiding talking about people he knew I stupidly told him that other than being in bed nude together and maybe a curious touch or two - nothing ever went on before and that we are just extremely close and he is pretty sexually open w/just me and other than that - he is straight...
Okay my best friend extremely good looking and really vain and into his looks and body so I could definitely see why he was asking hoping that he was bi-sexual too...He is one of those people that women and men find very attractive and doesn't have a problem w/guys hitting on him...But I found myself kind of annoyed w/this guy but I couldn't let him know because I promised this guy that I would not tell anyone and always would be there for him since he felt like an outcast...But the next day when my best friend and I went to lunch my best was telling me that this guy was calling him all morning wanting to hangout and I was like I wonder why he called you and not me (my bestfriend knows him through me but this guy never called him before)...He thought it was a little weird and I told him that the guy was going through some emotional stuff and just wanted some friends so I said invite him to lunch if he wanted to...I almost wanted to tell my best friend what happened the other night but I promised that other guy I wouldn't plus I have never even told my best friend my slight interest in guys but I know he knows just because of our interactions...My best friend love each other and joke that if we were going to be gay - it would only be for each other since I am the only guy he is this comfortable with and knows everything about him...
Okay I don't know what to do now because I find that me and this guy have nothing in common...And I really don't like hanging out w/him and having conversations w/him about who he thinks is hot and which friends I think are good in bed...I felt like I was talking to a woman and this guy is pretty masculine...He said he goes to gay clubs and I am not into them...I guess I am more on the straight side than I thought...And I don't like him calling my best friend to try to hang out because I know where his mind is going and I know my best friend will shatter those thoughts if he makes a move on him...So I am wondering what should I do about this w/o breaking his spirit and sending him more into depression about his situation because I really feel bad for this guy...I mean the guy came over the next night wanting to talk and spent the night and nothing happened we never touched or anything but just slight in the same bed clothed and I normally sleep in the nude but I didn't want to give him any ideas...Has anyone encountered anything like this...