A "friend" thinks it's funny...

[silvertriumph2]

I don't have things like about him. Even so, I wouldn't use it maliciously.

(addressed at everyone) Ugh, he's just so difficult. It's a cycle. When he's my "friend", he acts up and I don't want to have any part of it anymore. Then when we're not friends, he wants to be cooperative and we become friends again. I'll then reveal things and he starts hanging it over my head. I mean, it's just a continuous cycle. I've had to "disfriend ( or whatever lol)" him twice before and I was stupid to believe that after 9 years of knowing him and 6 of us being friends that I could confide when he has been a douche to me and thinks it's funny on top of it.

First of all...he is NOT YOUR FRIEND!

Forget about "confiding" anything to this jerk ever again! Drop him immediately!

You said that he admitted "liking to mess with you"...by that, do you mean he likes to JO with you...or something else sexually with you in private?

Well, that IS SOMTHING you have on him.

I know you may not want to play his game and would rather
"turn the other cheek", but this is serious.....so do what you
have to do to stop his disgusting and saddistic ways.

He is just a plain bully and is probably confused about his own sexuality and is taking it out on you.
It is not funny and I am sure he knows it's not funny.....he is
doing it to mask his own problems, so don't be a
part of it. Be above it! Again....don't be a part of it.

Good luck...you know what you have to do.

 

[B_willy5904]

Years ago I had a gay male friend that would behave in a similar way. He would straight out tell you that bisexuality was not an orientation. That bisexual men and women were just in denial that they are homosexuals.

My best friend, his wife, my wife and I had all known this man since college and we all became re-acquainted with when he moved to Dallas. When we were in college he was perceived as the biggest male slut on the dorm floor, he slept with anything as long as she had a pulse and big tits.

When he came to Dallas he told me that he had come out a couple years before. And that was when I shared with him that I was also sexually attracted to men. His response was that he thought that was very unfair to my wife. I told him that my wife fully supported me being a bisexual and viewed it as the sexual orientation I was born with. He later told me that he did not think bisexuality was an sexual orientation.

He would mock my bisexuality in front of my close friends and even my wife. What he did not realize that the people he mocked me to were also bisexuals that my wife and I shared our lives and beds with. He was cut out of our group of friends fairly quickly. He found that the hot North Texas summers could be a very cold place for a Yankee with an attitude.

 

[Rikter8]

Just unleash verbally on him.
Let him swing first - then put him out of his misery.

He's toxic. Get rid of him.