Javyn - yes, preferences are innate to a certain extent, but I look at your last sentence from a different perspective. Yes, people can choose to shave or not, but it's also worth asking questions about why things are as they are (media, marketing, etc.) and how expectations have changed over the years. At the end of the day, some people are still going to prefer one look over another, and that's fine. What isn't fine is when someone I'm dating pressures me to make a decision I'm not comfortable with for myself, and a lot of guys have done this. When I was a teenager and in my early twenties, I sometimes caved in to their requests...but now, anyone who gives me a hard time quickly gets the boot. On that note, I fully cop to being a size queen - but most of the guys I date have average-sized dicks, and I don't get them penis pumps for their birthday.