She is already having some form of sex with him.
What you should know...her commenting on his libido years ago...she wants him to be his release from the "not enough sex he has with his wife"
She has mentioned him 5 or 6 times...which means she has thought of him 5 or 6 thousand times BEFORE she mentioned him the first time.
When she saw him in the neighborhood...he saw her too...and that likely months before she told you about it.
Her finally bringing him up, she is slowly opening up the discussion to 3sums and such where you watch them...and she does not have to hide his fucking her from you.
Until she finds and has even better sex with a man who has a much bigger and more powerful hose than her ex, she will never forget about him....and all erotic thoughts and dreams will always, forever, unless he is replaced with a new super lover...she will always think of him.
It's been a long time since I checked in.
The only thing I am certain of is that they are not fucking. But I am also sure the rest of your post is spot on. In general she is a typical nice mom type and is a bit embarrassed of talking about it but I am pretty sure you are right. She loves sex, orgasms very easily, loves when I grind in deep in doggy with my 7x5.5".
Advice for moving forward would be appreciated .
Here's an update, sorry it's a lot of info, some maybe more relevant than others. No major progress but definitely some progress made. I am going through some business issues so our sex life was a bit routine.
Just to frame it, she is not outspoken at all about her fantasies so I get it in bits and pieces or via sexting.
1) I am now absolutely certain I would love her to fuck a guy with a huge cock and preferably be there to watch, but it's not a must. I've thought about this a lot over the last months.
2) By using examples from our relationship and things she has told me about her past she openly admitted that she is a size queen and it was the great sex her huge cock ex who made her one. She said the sex was extremely intense, almost too intense to go at it daily and from then on she always hoped for bigger.
3) She fell asleep while I was fucking her in spoons and the next day I gave her a serious fucking with some big sleeves where she didn't even need a vibe to orgasm several times. She admitted with the big cocks it is much more stimulating. It seems like due to her looseness and me being slightly above average that she sees sex with me as relaxation instead of something intense.
4) I often send her stories and she absolutely loved a recent one where she gets picked up in a bar by two huge cock guys while I watch from a distance. We exchanged loads of texts about what our favourite parts of the story, which were: getting seriously fucked to bits by the huge cocks, them treating her like a slut and cumming all over her, getting face fucked, being double fisted, all of this while I was watching. Her least favourite parts are also interesting: all scenes (foreplay, afterplay, ...) where that did not include the huge cocks destroying her, me getting sloppy seconds at the end was her least favourite part. She even preferred DP to me being with her and she is an absolute no to anal in real life.
5) She also loves another story where a monster cock guy picks her up in a bar and cums five times in her while I watch.
6) While watching a well known national hockey player (he's local), she said if he would want her there is no way i am stopping her fucking him. She has said this about other sports guys in the past, but this time it was really clear and out of nowhere. It seems like she is demanding a free pass.
7) From her favourite 2 huge BBC story her favourite scene was her getting fucked in reverse cowgirl. I asked if she likes it even if we never do it, and she said she loves it and would love to experience it again. I asked if this is her favourite with huge cocks, she said absolutely. I then asked was this your favourite position with your huge cock ex and she gave a big thumbs up. We tried it a few times in the past but I keep falling out of her big pussy.
8) I call her my "BPSQS" Bucket-pussy, sizequeen, slut and she loves it and even uses it in sexting.
9) She admits I a too small to stimulate her loose pussy and that's why she loves when I put in my hand or use cock sleeves.
10) She said extra deep gives her almost instant orgasms and I have seen this with the huge sleeves.
11) She would also love it if I was thicker than my 5.5" and longer of course. She is excited to see if the penis pump will hav
e an effect.
12) I invited her to an erotic expo but she said not yet.
13) she likes when I send her links to porn that I like.
Next steps:
1-Keep doing the story stuff.
2-use her favourite position feedback to fuck her with a long cock sleeve.
3-tell her she has a free pass for a well known sports guy but also to fuck a huge cock. Be clear I don't need to be physically involved.
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Other feedback and ideas are very welcome.
I think it might eventually happen. I am sure she wants it.
