A fun fantasy or potential for start of hotwifing because wife has started talking again about her huge dick ex?

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I'd love to see a photo of you wearing that sleeve.

Wouldn't mind seeing a photo of it is use, either. :)
Here it is next to me (no 100% hard). Its a triple stacked sleeve (Size Matters Really ample + fantasy extensions mega 3" + fatboy thin).
My wife will not allow me to make a photos or videos.......yet. I keep asking her though.
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You are probably totally right. It's very risky. Thanks.
I suppose the draw is that there probably little chance of finding her a guy with a gigantic dick that she finds attractive and the guy finds her attractive. She is 100% sure that he is at least 10"x6.5", by comparing him to dildos and cock sleeves.
My guess is I will keep it as a fantasy, tease her about it and fuck her to multiple orgams with huge sleeves. I don't think we will actively search for another guy/girl, but if an opportunity might come about I am certainly open.

He's probably not 10 inches lol.

Have you tried reddit? I believe there's a whole hot wife community there with bulls ready and willing to fuck.

I would offer, but my girlfriend would kill me and my cock at full erection is only 7 x 5 lmao
 

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Here it is next to me (no 100% hard). Its a triple stacked sleeve (Size Matters Really ample + fantasy extensions mega 3" + fatboy thin).
My wife will not allow me to make a photos or videos.......yet. I keep asking her though.
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In all seriousness dude, you've got a fat cock. You should be stroking your wife down with that fucker and leaving her not even wanting any other man
 
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Fuck I love this idea and I appreciate you sharing this hot fantasy that looks like it will be real. Mmmmm. Fuck I love it mmmm. Wish I was you mmmm
 

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My wife has recently seen her huge dick ex in our neighbourhood and has openly mentioned him 5 or 6 times in the last week or two. Just things like "I've seen x. I wonder why is in the neighbourhood....."
Read through the background below and let me know what you think of my ideas, or do you have any other suggestions, comments or ideas.

My wife and I are very happily married with two kids and we have been together since 2002. We have a great sex life especially, since 2015 when I introduced big sex toys, dildos, vibrators,an huge penis sleeves/extensions. Due to this and continuous fisting she is now permanently loose and loves the huge penis sleeves. She admitted that she is a size queen, she felt me up on our first night in bed while I slept with a hardon and she was happy with my slightly bigger size. She has also said that she felt "lucky" that she has always had above average sized guys.
We both often make comments about hot people that we see, and even while I would be fisting her she would say how hot some guys on tv are. She loves the big, strong muscled guys with bigger cocks.

So a brief history: In 2015 my wife started a new teaching job and she mentioned that an ex of her's worked there, that she had a good relationship with back in 1995, that she ended. She said they still got on well with him, that he was funny and they were friends but she liked the secrecy that no one else knew they were a couple. I also noticed that she was dressing up really nicely going to work (almost sexy), she looked amazing. I am 100% sure they were flirting, she was enjoying the attention but had no intentions of having an affair. Our sexlife was also really good.
Around the same time while using some big toys she teasingly admitted that she had an ex who a much bigger than me (I am not small at all), she said he had an enormous, "scarily huge" penis and she compared it to a huge 10.5" and thick penis extension/sleeve that we used a lot.
Two years later in 2017 my wife admitted that huge penis ex, and the ex at her work are the same guy. Wow, that blew me away a bit that it took so long to admit this, but it also turned me on. Instead of being annoyed or insecure I decided to have fun with it. I started playing the hotwife's huge ex fantasy. I would call the huge penis extension her "ex sized cock", and tell her that her ex would love to fuck her now, because she can handle huge dicks much better. This toy became by far her favourite, she was often asking for it, and would multiple orgasm like crazy. This was for sure the most amazing and highly sexed period of our sex lives. It was great fun and we were having sex 5-6 times a week and very often with this ex sized huge penis extension.This amazing intense period in our sex life continued for two years. It dropped off a bit, is still great but wow those few years were amazing. I was also writing fantasies and emails about her fucking him and other huge guys. They turned her on but she said she didn't really want to. One time when she was going to a work party I told her to flirt with him and see if she could get a hold of his cock, she just smiled but didn't do it.
In 2020 her ex (who is married) started another job so they didn't see each other anymore.

A few weeks ago (2022) my wife mentioned that she saw her ex in our neighbourhood, even though he lives in a nearby city. She saw him n the distance several times over the last few weeks, and she thinks he works a few 100m from us. The other day when a song played she even mentioned that her ex loved that group. He is obviously in her head a bit.

So, this is what I think:
1-When my wife was with him a way back in 1995 she loved their sex life (she said this), loved his size (she said this), but it was too intense for daily sex due to his huge size (she also said this). She also said that she really liked him, they got on really well but it wasn't her big love at the time. So yeah, she really enjoyed his size and would handle it much better now.
2-Due to the years of using huge toys she got used to the sizes, can now take truly astounding length and girth and has discovered that she loves the huge toys. She often mentions that the toys are great but a real penis is the best. I tease her saying that she should find a guy with a huge one and she would love it.
3-Now that he is working in the neighbourhood I believe that sexually her interest has peaked about a or his big dick again. We still use the big penis extensions 1 in 5 times, so she still loves it big but prefers it real.

What do you think? Is it an opening to see if she would like a threesome or a hotwife tryout?
1-Is seeing him in the neighbourhood making her think of his huge dick and how good it would feel?

2-Or, is it all in my head because I like the idea of her wanting his huge dick?

3-Should I tease her about talking about him and tell her jokingly she is just wanting some huge dick again?

4-I might even write a story/fantasy about them bumping into each other in the street and going back to our place for some fun.

5-Tell her I would love if she would actually fuck him one time only to really know how good it is or not. This idea is a big turn on but of course I am also nervous of the consequences. I am not sure how she would react to this now.

6-any other fun suggestions?

She is already having some form of sex with him.

What you should know...her commenting on his libido years ago...she wants him to be his release from the "not enough sex he has with his wife"

She has mentioned him 5 or 6 times...which means she has thought of him 5 or 6 thousand times BEFORE she mentioned him the first time.

When she saw him in the neighborhood...he saw her too...and that likely months before she told you about it.

Her finally bringing him up, she is slowly opening up the discussion to 3sums and such where you watch them...and she does not have to hide his fucking her from you.

Until she finds and has even better sex with a man who has a much bigger and more powerful hose than her ex, she will never forget about him....and all erotic thoughts and dreams will always, forever, unless he is replaced with a new super lover...she will always think of him.
 

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My wife has recently seen her huge dick ex in our neighbourhood and has openly mentioned him 5 or 6 times in the last week or two. Just things like "I've seen x. I wonder why is in the neighbourhood....."
Read through the background below and let me know what you think of my ideas, or do you have any other suggestions, comments or ideas.

My wife and I are very happily married with two kids and we have been together since 2002. We have a great sex life especially, since 2015 when I introduced big sex toys, dildos, vibrators,an huge penis sleeves/extensions. Due to this and continuous fisting she is now permanently loose and loves the huge penis sleeves. She admitted that she is a size queen, she felt me up on our first night in bed while I slept with a hardon and she was happy with my slightly bigger size. She has also said that she felt "lucky" that she has always had above average sized guys.
We both often make comments about hot people that we see, and even while I would be fisting her she would say how hot some guys on tv are. She loves the big, strong muscled guys with bigger cocks.

So a brief history: In 2015 my wife started a new teaching job and she mentioned that an ex of her's worked there, that she had a good relationship with back in 1995, that she ended. She said they still got on well with him, that he was funny and they were friends but she liked the secrecy that no one else knew they were a couple. I also noticed that she was dressing up really nicely going to work (almost sexy), she looked amazing. I am 100% sure they were flirting, she was enjoying the attention but had no intentions of having an affair. Our sexlife was also really good.
Around the same time while using some big toys she teasingly admitted that she had an ex who a much bigger than me (I am not small at all), she said he had an enormous, "scarily huge" penis and she compared it to a huge 10.5" and thick penis extension/sleeve that we used a lot.
Two years later in 2017 my wife admitted that huge penis ex, and the ex at her work are the same guy. Wow, that blew me away a bit that it took so long to admit this, but it also turned me on. Instead of being annoyed or insecure I decided to have fun with it. I started playing the hotwife's huge ex fantasy. I would call the huge penis extension her "ex sized cock", and tell her that her ex would love to fuck her now, because she can handle huge dicks much better. This toy became by far her favourite, she was often asking for it, and would multiple orgasm like crazy. This was for sure the most amazing and highly sexed period of our sex lives. It was great fun and we were having sex 5-6 times a week and very often with this ex sized huge penis extension.This amazing intense period in our sex life continued for two years. It dropped off a bit, is still great but wow those few years were amazing. I was also writing fantasies and emails about her fucking him and other huge guys. They turned her on but she said she didn't really want to. One time when she was going to a work party I told her to flirt with him and see if she could get a hold of his cock, she just smiled but didn't do it.
In 2020 her ex (who is married) started another job so they didn't see each other anymore.

A few weeks ago (2022) my wife mentioned that she saw her ex in our neighbourhood, even though he lives in a nearby city. She saw him n the distance several times over the last few weeks, and she thinks he works a few 100m from us. The other day when a song played she even mentioned that her ex loved that group. He is obviously in her head a bit.

So, this is what I think:
1-When my wife was with him a way back in 1995 she loved their sex life (she said this), loved his size (she said this), but it was too intense for daily sex due to his huge size (she also said this). She also said that she really liked him, they got on really well but it wasn't her big love at the time. So yeah, she really enjoyed his size and would handle it much better now.
2-Due to the years of using huge toys she got used to the sizes, can now take truly astounding length and girth and has discovered that she loves the huge toys. She often mentions that the toys are great but a real penis is the best. I tease her saying that she should find a guy with a huge one and she would love it.
3-Now that he is working in the neighbourhood I believe that sexually her interest has peaked about a or his big dick again. We still use the big penis extensions 1 in 5 times, so she still loves it big but prefers it real.

What do you think? Is it an opening to see if she would like a threesome or a hotwife tryout?
1-Is seeing him in the neighbourhood making her think of his huge dick and how good it would feel?

2-Or, is it all in my head because I like the idea of her wanting his huge dick?

3-Should I tease her about talking about him and tell her jokingly she is just wanting some huge dick again?

4-I might even write a story/fantasy about them bumping into each other in the street and going back to our place for some fun.

5-Tell her I would love if she would actually fuck him one time only to really know how good it is or not. This idea is a big turn on but of course I am also nervous of the consequences. I am not sure how she would react to this now.

6-any other fun suggestions?
Hi, what's the update?
 

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An update:
Most of the times we have had sex in the last weeks, she has wanted the big cock sleeves, so yeah she has certainly thought about big cock more often.

A few days ago she had a bad dream about me being with another woman (2nd wife) and fucking the other woman in another room. She said it was not sexual and gave her bad feeling. I told her I wouldn't do that, but I would like to do a trio with a woman or a man. It interests her but she does not want to risk our relationship at all.

Last weekend we went to a party in his town, she guessed he would be there and was mentioning him a lot. She had a quick chat with him, but that was it.
So, she loves me fucking her to bits with huge sleeves, but she does not want to risk our relationship. If thinking about him makes her horny and wanting more sex, I am fine with that.
 
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Everything sounds great except having the ex-boyfriend involved. Big red flag for me.
I engaged in a foursome with my gf, the ex of my girlfriend, and his girlfriend who was an ex of mine. I have a tiny penis and a sph fetish (small penis humiliation) His cock was huge which made mine look even more pathetic in comparison. I enjoyed watching him fuck both my current and ex girlfriends.
 
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I engaged in a foursome with my gf, the ex of my girlfriend, and his girlfriend who was an ex of mine. I have a tiny penis and a sph fetish (small penis humiliation) His cock was huge which made mine look even more pathetic in comparison. I enjoyed watching him fuck both my current and ex girlfriends.
How did you feel afterwards?
 
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I engaged in a foursome with my gf, the ex of my girlfriend, and his girlfriend who was an ex of mine. I have a tiny penis and a sph fetish (small penis humiliation) His cock was huge which made mine look even more pathetic in comparison. I enjoyed watching him fuck both my current and ex girlfriends.
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I engaged in a foursome with my gf, the ex of my girlfriend, and his girlfriend who was an ex of mine. I have a tiny penis and a sph fetish (small penis humiliation) His cock was huge which made mine look even more pathetic in comparison. I enjoyed watching him fuck both my current and ex girlfriends.

If the photos in your gallery are yours, yours is certainly not a "tiny penis."

And, if they are not yours, then why are they in your gallery?
 
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If the photos in your gallery are yours, yours is certainly not a "tiny penis."

And, if they are not yours, then why are they in your gallery?
I dont have a photo gallery so I dont know what photos younare referring to or else younquoted the wrong post and meant the post I had quoted
 

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Not a good idea to push her anymore. It's going to happen with or without you if it hasn't already. Don't push it, she gets your ok and even turned on by it, her hold up is 'can you really handle it', and will she be ok with you after. Just if it comes up be reassuring.
 
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I engaged in a foursome with my gf, the ex of my girlfriend, and his girlfriend who was an ex of mine. I have a tiny penis and a sph fetish (small penis humiliation) His cock was huge which made mine look even more pathetic in comparison. I enjoyed watching him fuck both my current and ex girlfriends.
I can see how that could be a turn on, but if you are in a romantic relationship, and your partner wants to engage sexually with her ex., I would be worried it might turn into more. I guess it all depends on your relationship. Are you deeply connected and trust one another?

If this whole scenario involved your partner just wanting a guy with a big dick and no boyfriend baggage then go for it.
 
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I can see how that could be a turn on, but if you are in a romantic relationship, and your partner wants to engage sexually with her ex., I would be worried it might turn into more. I guess it all depends on your relationship. Are you deeply connected and trust one another?

If this whole scenario involved your partner just wanting a guy with a big dick and no boyfriend baggage then go for it.
That is exactly the situation. She isnt looking for a relationship with anyone else ( we get along very very well in the nonsexual part of our relationship) She has always had a very high sex drive and definitely some of her previous relationships either couldnt take the pace and were definitely not into anything non-monogamous (sp) She isnt a size queen per se but she has a definite preference to big dicks.
 
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That is exactly the situation. She isnt looking for a relationship with anyone else ( we get along very very well in the nonsexual part of our relationship) She has always had a very high sex drive and definitely some of her previous relationships either couldnt take the pace and were definitely not into anything non-monogamous (sp) She isnt a size queen per se but she has a definite preference to big dicks.
Well like they say happy wife happy life. If your relationship is rock solid then go have a good time.

I can see how another dick doing your wife could be a turn on. However, you should treat yourself to a little extra as well. How about another woman? Foursome sounds really sweet too me. Lots of wild stuff packed into that scenario.