A girl you are into asks you to give a blowjob. Would you do that?

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I have to ask: your wife/girlfriend or a girl you want to have sex with tells you that before she does anything sexual with you, she wants you to give a bj (your first ever) to a man, maybe her gay best friend. Is a 100% no from you or maybe you can consider the idea?
 

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So essentially you're saying the woman would withhold sex or use it as a bargaining chip in order to get a man do a sexual act he might not be comfortable with or into due to his orientation. Sounds like manipulation and someone a guy would be better off without.

Of course my questions to you would be A) What would be her motivation to do this? B) If your husband/boyfriend or a guy you want to have sex with told you the only way you going to is if you let his straight female friend blow you or you had to eat her pussy, would you consider it or not?

Maybe your answer will give you my answer. Or maybe not.
 
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Ok, probably the example of the girl (not the gf or wife) asking this before having sex for the first time was wrong. My bad, forget it.

I know that some women are turned on at the idea of their men doing some gay stuff.
Personally, to answer your question, I think that I couldn't do what you are saying but never say never. Gay or straight, a horny man can agrees to almost anything :p
 

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Easy answer it's no. Why would I be with someone that asked me to do something I don't want to do?

Absobloodylutely, it's a daft question that has only one answer, the answer that Hatt_101 gave.
 
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Of course, that's another thing. If I go out on the street asking to all the men I meet if they would have sex with me for, let's say 10.000$, I'm pretty sure that at least 1 man every 3 would agree (I'd expect a punch on my face from the other 2 lol).
What I was trying to understand is if a man would do that to satisfy his partner.
 

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Planing to coerce a woman to force his man have sex with you? Please don’t
I can’t think any scenario where a woman would ask that.
I would consider as a trick question like before getting married “please bang me hot sister” ,not going to happen and a great pig detector.
On this case would be a bi detector.
 
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But I was not thinking of coercion...
Ok, I'm going to reformulate: imagine that you have just finished having amazing sex with the woman of your life, the one you have been with for years and that you truly love. Let's suppose that she tells you that lately she's had this hot fantasy of her in which you perform homosexual stuff with another man while she just sat there and watch. She tells you that she'd like to see you make out with a guy, or give each other a handjob or even swapping blowjobs... she's not forcing you at all. She's just telling you that she'd get really hot if that could happen. You can't leave or get mad at her for just expressing one of her fantasy, as strange and awkward as it could be, right?
 

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Of course, that's another thing. If I go out on the street asking to all the men I meet if they would have sex with me for, let's say 10.000$, I'm pretty sure that at least 1 man every 3 would agree (I'd expect a punch on my face from the other 2 lol).
What I was trying to understand is if a man would do that to satisfy his partner.

You would get more than a punch in the face.
 
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But I was not thinking of coercion...
Ok, I'm going to reformulate: imagine that you have just finished having amazing sex with the woman of your life, the one you have been with for years and that you truly love. Let's suppose that she tells you that lately she's had this hot fantasy of her in which you perform homosexual stuff with another man while she just sat there and watch. She tells you that she'd like to see you make out with a guy, or give each other a handjob or even swapping blowjobs... she's not forcing you at all. She's just telling you that she'd get really hot if that could happen. You can't leave or get mad at her for just expressing one of her fantasy, as strange and awkward as it could be, right?

Wrong!
 
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You would get more than a punch in the face.
I know that. And that's why I never asked and I will never dare to ask. But I think that everyone here can be free to express himself as long as we stay respectful of each other.
 

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But I was not thinking of coercion...
Ok, I'm going to reformulate: imagine that you have just finished having amazing sex with the woman of your life, the one you have been with for years and that you truly love. Let's suppose that she tells you that lately she's had this hot fantasy of her in which you perform homosexual stuff with another man while she just sat there and watch. She tells you that she'd like to see you make out with a guy, or give each other a handjob or even swapping blowjobs... she's not forcing you at all. She's just telling you that she'd get really hot if that could happen. You can't leave or get mad at her for just expressing one of her fantasy, as strange and awkward as it could be, right?
There is no need to make every fantasy come true.
I assume you never was on a long therm relationship.
If she somehow ask that I would tell her not going to happen keep dreaming you married the wrong guy.
I just realize where the nonsense comes your user “gay top straight bottom” get realistic goals or you will boicot yourself.
AAW is open if you want to check your ideas about woman.
 

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Add money to the equation and I can bet you a lot of straight guys would if the offer was substantial.

Yet another claim that all one needs to turn a straight guy is enough money. Maybe some would, but most would not. So, what would you say that if someone made the claim that most gay guys could be made to be straight by paying them enough money? Would such a declaration sound as offensive and homophobic as it would be?
Newflash...those "straight" dudes that you see in straight/gay porn are doing it for the money, but there are also doing it because they are not straight, but bi. No amount of money will make most men do something they are not into and capable of getting aroused by no matter what their orientation.
 

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Yet another claim that all one needs to turn a straight guy is enough money. Maybe some would, but most would not. So, what would you say that if someone made the claim that most gay guys could be made to be straight by paying them enough money? Would such a declaration sound as offensive and homophobic as it would be?
Newflash...those "straight" dudes that you see in straight/gay porn are doing it for the money, but there are also doing it because they are not straight, but bi. No amount of money will make most men do something they are not into and capable of getting aroused by no matter what their orientation.
You seem pressed over the truth. Get over it. Yea a lot of gay guys would briefly turn straight for money and a lot of straight guys would go gay for money. It is what it is. It's not that cut and dry with everyone. Newsflash to you but most people are not 100% anything based on the Kinsey Scale. Oh and if you really believe that then tell all the straight men on Onlyfans who produce content that caters to the gay community but identify as straight. It's only sex at the end of the day and it doesn't change their sexuality. Who you are attracted to determines your sexuality.
 
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We are not talking of turning one for life. As a gay man, for money I'm pretty sure that I could go with a woman for a couple of hours. I'd need help to "function" but I could do it.