Wow, that's kind of creepy, I think, but maybe that's a chick thing. I wouldn't leap to any conclusions just yet, though, Orbitz. The guy who did it might have felt safe precisely because there were several other guys around that night. Not to point a finger at your friend you just spent time with, but it MIGHT still have been him and he just wasn't gonna try something that extreme when it was just the two of ya this time. Good luck!